tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-282436692024-03-06T20:45:48.025-07:00Bone JuniorBone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.comBlogger368125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-73159484326513970522013-03-05T11:23:00.002-07:002013-03-05T11:24:13.363-07:00Math Was Never My Strong Suit<div class="chat out">
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<span class="salutation"><i>And today, on chat... </i></span><br />
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<span class="salutation"><b>Bone</b>: W</span>ith your MBA, you had to do a lot of
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<span class="salutation"><b>Blake</b>: </span>Yeah, I had to take finance classes and
accounting. I'm not great at it but I had to do it for classes.<br />
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<span class="salutation"><b>Bone</b>: I have a random question for you. O</span>nce you get a car paid
off, should you just keep driving it because now you have no monthly
payment, or should you sell it to get more value out of it now? Is the money you save from making a car
payment more or less than the money you lose by waiting longer to sell you
car. I have no idea how to even BEGIN to figure
out that true cost/savings, so I thought I'd ask you!<br />
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<span class="salutation"><b>Blake</b>: </span>Well a lot of it would have to do with the value
of the car today and the cost of the new car you'd want to buy, and what kind of
interest rate would be associated with those payments etc.<br />
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<b>Bone</b>: Right, right.<br />
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<b>Blake</b>: It would a present value vs. future value problem.<br />
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<b>Bone</b>: Sure, sure.<br />
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<span class="salutation"><b>Blake</b>: </span>Basically you can plug in numbers to see what
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<span class="salutation"><b>Bone</b>: </span>Is the<b> <i>value</i></b> different from the<i><b> actual
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<span class="salutation"><b>Blake</b>: </span>Yeah because money will be valued differently in
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<b>Bone</b>: Right, obviously.<br />
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<b>Blake</b>: And you have to consider interest.<br />
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<span class="salutation"><b>Bone</b>: </span>So what you're saying is, first and foremost I
need to get a DeLorean and go back to the future.<br />
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<span class="salutation"><b>Blake</b>: </span>Yesssssssssss... precisely.<br />
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<i>And that's why Blake has two master's degrees, and I don't. </i> </div>
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Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-90793232374263897342012-09-09T08:05:00.003-06:002012-09-09T14:21:32.235-06:00Wit Comes Naturally; Cooking Does Not. **UPDATED**This started out as a simple status update on Facebook, but I got so carried away with it that I felt it deserved <i>the actual blog. </i>So you know this is gonna be good, right?<br />
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For years, family and friends have kindly, graciously, and tirelessly offered to teach me how to cook. Yanaj and I even worked out a deal that she'd teach me how to make one meal a week, and in exchange, I'd teach her everything she needs to know about football. I think we got through one chocolate mousse and a frustrated whiteboard session before we both gave up.<br />
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My sister, who makes amazing and "so easy" (her words, not mine) meals that she swears any dummy can learn how to make them. We started making one of her soooooooooo easy recipes and my first (and eventually <i>only</i> task) was to boil the pasta. First of all, this pasta didn't look like any pasta I'd ever seen. It was squishy little balls of pasta that confused me. Secondly, the pasta was going to be part of a<i> dessert, </i>which confused me even more, because what kind of dessert has pasta in it?<br />
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Back to the boiling. My excuse for not knowing how to boil pasta is that clearly my mind was swimming with unending questions like the ones above. I filled the pot with water, dumped the pasta in the pot, set the pot on the burner, and was met by a bewildered facial expression on my sister. She was doing that face where you're not sure if someone is kidding or being serious, and you can't commit your face to either one; because if they're kidding then you're already <i>kind </i>of smiling, at least enough to lead into a full on smile. But if they're being serious, you cannot have a smile on your face because then you will just make that person feel dumb because she thought it was a perfectly reasonable process she'd followed to boil pasta, even though you know that that's not how you do it at all, and you've committed to the raised-eyebrows, half-smile, slightly tilted head of confusion face; because you don't want to make her feel dumb, but you kind of can't believe that a thirty-year-old woman doesn't know how to boil pasta.<br />
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But as a graceful, kind woman does, you repeatedly assure your sister that she is very special (<i>so special that she can't boil pasta correctly</i>) and tell her that this way of doing it is cutting edge, and practically no one knows how to do it this way anyway, so it's really not a big deal. And she'll tell everyone at dinner how YOU cooked the dessert pasta, and she'll praise the perfect tenderness of the pasta, and how helpful it was to have you in the kitchen to help. And I kept asking questions like why are we having pasta balls in our dessert. Because, unlike my sister, I am not a woman of grace and kindness.<br />
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Did you know that you have to boil the water <i>first, </i>then add the pasta? Probably, because that seems like the very rudimentary things you learn early on in your life as a chef. Or as a normal person who makes food, ever. <br />
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And we all remember the debauchery that was Tiff's birthday dinner two years ago, <a href="http://www.sarahisdabomb.com/2010/10/how-bone-does-classy.html" target="_blank">when I was banished to the rice cooker. </a><br />
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Then a good friend gave me a cute little one-quart crock pot, because there's nothing easier than making crock pot recipes. Just dump it all in and go, right? Wrong. I learned that I didn't have most of the ingredients on hand to make the recipes that looked good, so I just kind of winged it a couple times by That was about two years ago.<br />
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Last Christmas, my best friend in PA sent me a gorgeous slow roaster, complete with a fail-proof book of recipes. Not just recipes, ya'll, but pictures of the ingredients (so I could recognize them easier in the grocery store), locations of where within the store each item could be found (otherwise I'd end up wandering around aimlessly for hours and get bored and give up), pictures of each cooking tool or utensil I'd need, where to buy those, on and on. This was the complete idiot's absolutely fail proof handbook to slow roasting. She could not possibly have made it any easier for me to successfully prepare a delicious meal from start to finish. And it is an amazing slow roaster - at least the pictures on the box it's still stored in look amazing.<br />
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My point being, friends are constantly offering to help teach me how to cook. telling me how once I start doing it, I'll love it, I'll come up with amazingly tasty and creative recipes all on my on, and one day I'll impress a handsome man with my cooking skillz and he'll immediately want to have lots of sex and babies with me. And I always respond with the same eye-rolling, whiny responses: "But it's so <i>hard </i>to prepare and cook all this food for just <i>one single person. </i>It's so much easier to just make a sandwich or have a bowl of cereal. Leftovers go bad before they go rotten, and frankly I just do not enjoy having to put anything more than barely minimal effort into what I eat. I always thanked them for their offers to bestow culinary pearls of wisdom upon me and thus change my life forever, but politely declined. Probably not even politely; probably just stubbornly.<br />
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Because <i>I do not like cooking, and you cannot make me do it! </i><br />
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And then something weird happened this morning. I saw my cute little crock pot sitting in the cupboard, and I thought of the huge pork pieces I had in the fridge. I say "pork pieces" because I honestly have no idea what kind of pork parts they are. I know they're not pork chops, because there don't have bones. But beyond that, ya got me. They're just big lumps of port.<br />
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I looked at the pork lumps, then back to the crock pot. Then I thought about how much I love pork, and how nice it would be to eat something tonight that I really like, and that I actually made. So I just went for it.<br />
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And here's where it really gets fun and interesting folks, because we don't know how this all turns out for another 6-8 hours. I'd try to walk you through my thought process as I grabbed different ingredients, but I had no thought process other than, "That could taste good."<br />
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I put the pork lump in the crock pot. I remembered hearing or reading somewhere that you need to have some kind of base liquid, so I found some plain chicken broth and poured some of that in. Then I found half an apple I had cut up, some coconut flakes, and brown sugar. That all sounded pretty good, so into the pot they went. It looked like it needed more liquid, so I added some maple syrup. A quick taste sample proved this method to be much too sweet, and I needed to find something to bring that down a bit. I was trying to think of the words they use on Food Network that describes the counter part to a sweet element (not salty just because it's the opposite of sweet;) I knew there was a fancy word to describe what I was looking for, and what I found was Dijon mustard. So I squirted some of that into the pot and stirred it up.<br />
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Are you squeamish yet? I know I'm more than a little nervous about how this Pork Lump and Stuff (that's what I'm calling my recipe) will turn out. But I'm starting to catch whiffs from the kitchen, and I might be more on the right track than I thought.<br />
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Or this could be a completely awesome disaster that I will be forced to eat and blog about, especially if I get horrendous poos as a result. So stay tuned!<br />
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*****UPDATE*****<br />
Six hours later, the apartment smelled delicious and I was ready to unveil my Pork Lumps and Stuff. And I hate to disappoint you, but it was actually....really, <i>really </i>good. Part of me was hoping that it would be unpalatable, and I'd have a hilarious story to tell about my latest culinary failure. But it was <i>good. </i>It was really saucy, which kept the pork moist and juicy and now I even have lunch ready for tomorrow. <br />
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Out of the crock pot, and immediately before entering my belly. </div>
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I know that making a successful crock pot meal is nothing to most you amazing cooks, planners, recipe creators, and unbelievably amazing chefs who put together entire meals on a daily basis, for entire families - but I have to pat myself on the back for this small victory for Bone. Yes, it's essentially just dumping things into a warming pot, and there's not much "real" cooking involved for me...but it's baby steps, and today, this gal made huge baby steps. </div>
<br />Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-58874215993111976322012-08-09T15:48:00.000-06:002012-08-09T15:49:43.036-06:00RollerCon 2012: Where All My Wildest Dreams Came True; or At Least My Wildest Dreams About Male StrippersAh, RollerCon. The annual five-day roller derby convention in Las Vegas; chock full of everything you could ever imagine that has to do with derby. Everyone who didn't go is sick of reading Facebook posts about it, and everyone who did go is sick of talking about it. Maybe that's just me.<br />
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This was my first experience with RollerCon, and I was lucky to be able
to attend with some of my favorite people. But in trying to sum up the
overall experience, I started to sound like Charles Dickens: <i>It was the best of times, it was the worst of times...</i>there were highs and lows; lots of fun and inevitably, some not-so-fun. Some of it was just downright <i>hard</i>. Maybe it's like giving birth - while you're in the middle of it, it's really hard and awful, but when it's all over you have this beautiful baby and then you forget about how crappy it was, to the point that you'd do it all over again.<br />
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But, I've never given birth, and I don't really think that newborn babies are beautiful - in all honesty, they really gross me out; and also I didn't come home from RollerCon with a baby, beautiful or not, so perhaps that's not the best analogy. <br />
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In any case, please to enjoy my recap of RollerCon 2012.<br />
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<i>(Also, I've taken the liberty of stealing lots of these pictures from other people's Facebook albums, so thank you to everyone who let me use a photo without them even knowing.) </i> <br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>The Highs</b></span><br />
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<b>- Watching bouts.</b> This might seem boring to some people, but I really loved being in the main track room and just watching bout after bout. Some of them were competitive teams, and some were challenge bouts like Pads vs Tampons. They were <i>all</i> fun to watch, and seeing how differently everyone plays and skates was really valuable. <br />
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One of my absolute favorite challenge bouts featured two of my idols, Wanton Rebellion and Collin da Shotz, who are both big time officials. I love Wanton because she was my fresh meat mama, and I love/hate Collin because he's an absolute riot, but he ALWAYS catches me when I commit penalties and sends me to the box. That's just his job though.<br />
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Collin refs most of our scrimmages here, and the only skating I'd seen him do was around the inside of the track. I <i>know </i>Wanton can play, and you know she scares the crap out of me. Collin scares the crap out of me because he yells at me, but I had no idea how he played. Oh boy was I in for a treat.<br />
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This is the Collin I know:</div>
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And <i>this </i>is the Collin we were so lucky to watch play. </div>
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That's him, sitting in the penalty box, like, the <i>whole</i> time. It was such sweet, sweet satisfaction.</div>
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While seeing Collin da Shotz spend most of his time yellin from da box, I think my favorite moment was when Wanton went out there with him, put him on the inside line, and told him to <i>stay there. </i>Oh how well I know that speech. Then later, she had to grab his shirt and pull him to the front of the pack. Again, a very familiar feeling, right Rockettes? Who <i>hasn't </i>been grabbed by the shirt or waistband or arm and literally hauled to the front by Wanton? Hands down one of the most fun bouts I have ever watched. And Collin was such a good sport about us giving him a hard time - but really? Watching one of our refs just throw himself into the game (usually with penalizing results) was just so incredibly fun. And of course, screaming for Mama Wanton.</div>
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<b>-Everything to do with learning more about roller derby. </b>There was always something to do - classes on skates, classes off skates, classes in the pool, seminars, open scrimmages - you name it, you could probably find it there. One morning, just about all the Rockettes there joined a scrimmage together, and it was so fun to get to skate together with people you know, against people you don't know. And also to have the opportunity to play with people of all different experience levels. There's always something new to learn.<br />
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<b>- I got married. </b>Not for <i>real</i> (I don't want my sister to have a heart attack) but I left RollerCon with two new derby wives, Liz Tailher and Bruiser Ego. What can I say, I'm kind of a stud like that.<br />
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You might be saying, "What's a derby wife?" or, like my sister responded when I first mentioned having a derby wife, "I don't know what that is." My favorite definition of a derby wife is this: <i>The girl who reminds you of all the things you ever liked in anyone
else.Your derby wife is the girl who will always talk to you about
anything both on and off the track. Your derby wife is your competitor,
but she still appreciates your talents and skills.A derby wife is your roller derby soul mate. She may not even be your best friend in the league or the sport, but she’d
be the one you know will be the first one to back you up, even if you’re
dead wrong. </i><br />
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Yep, that about sums up my feelings for these two amazing women, and somehow I was able to trick them BOTH in being my derby wives. Hands off, ladies, they're mine...and their husbands. <br />
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<b>- The Black and Blue Ball. </b>This event was held on the last night of RollerCon, and its a big dance party, with the dress code described as this: "WHATEVER, as long as you’re wearing all black and/or blue." That's all the direction we had, and I didn't have a clue about what I was going to wear until the week before, when I was browsing Amazon and struck gold. I convinced Kid Seditious to dress up with me, and we kept our costumes a secret from everyone until we made our debut. And this happened:</div>
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I don't think I really need to talk about it, because the spandex body suits and high-top sneakers pretty much do all the talking. And I think the fanny packs really brought everything together nicely. Wearing this out in public was one of the scariest things I've ever done, but the payoff was totally worth it. Besides being stopped every few feet to have our picture taken, one of my derby idols, Fly Grrl Mel, said we were "epic." And her favorite part of the whole week. I pretty much pooped my suit at that point. <br />
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Here, Styxx and I demonstrate proper form for the move I like to call "The Skull Candi." You're welcome. <br />
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The Thunder From Down Under. Possibly the best night of my entire life, and absolutely the high point of the week for me. It was everything I wanted and so, <i>so</i> much more. It was Magic Mike come to life, right in my face, and I loved every minute of it. I screamed so much that I lost my voice for a week (which means I spent most of RollerCon sounding like Peter Brady), I played the bongo drums on one guy's bare butt cheeks, I mimed grating cheese on another guy's abs, and when the guy next to me in the picture asked where I was from, I just screamed, "I DON'T EVEN KNOW!!!" Once again, I don't think I really need to talk much more about it, because my face just says it all.<br />
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Many, many heartfelt thanks to the people who helped make it awesome - most especially those with me in the picture above: Liz Tailher, Bruiser Ego, Kid Seditious, and Italy. These girls spent more time with me that week then they probably would've liked, and I definitely saw more of Italy's naked bum than I ever expected <i>(I swear, if that girl wasn't so freaking lovable, I'd hate her for being so hot; but it is absolutely IMPOSSIBLE not to love her.) (Even when she gets numbers from guys everywhere you go)(And even when she makes out with one of the Thunder From Down Under guys)(Oops maybe I wasn't supposed to say that)(But it's totally true)(Sorry, Italy!)</i> But they put up with me through MY highs and lows all week, and they made the hard stuff worth it. <br />
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And they're all definitely better looking than a newborn baby.Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-49247753476940589232012-07-23T16:49:00.003-06:002012-07-23T16:52:20.110-06:00A Little PerspectiveWe interrupt this three month blogging hiatus to bring you an important message: Bone Junior is still alive; albeit really sucking at blogging. And I apologize in advance that this post will be brief and probably not funny at all.<br />
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I haven't been able to stop thinking about something that happened a few weeks ago. It was something so small and insignificant, but it really made me stop and think about how lucky and blessed I really am.<br />
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I was stopped in construction, sitting in my car with the windows down and my hair blowing in the breeze, when I got that feeling that someone was watching me. I looked over and saw a construction worker lady. She was probably forty-something going on sixty-five, with sun bleached orangy hair, brown leathery skin, holding a stop sign with one hand and smoking a Virginia Slim 100 with the other hand. She was standing right outside my passenger window, and I immediately tried not to make eye contact.<br />
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I was concentrating very hard on staring straight ahead, when she bent down and put her face right in my window. I momentarily considered rolling the window up, because who puts their head into a complete strangers car... But then she smiled and said in a raspy voice, "Go ahead, girl! Every day must be a great day for you because of this car! Go ahead with your bad self!" <br />
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And then I couldn't help but smile and laugh with her, because she was right - here I was, negative, pessimistic, critical, often feeling sorry for myself; and this lady took one look at me and saw what a great life I have. She was a construction flagger, standing outside every day in the heat, who knows what kind of car she drives, what her situation is - and there she was, reminding me that every day SHOULD be a great day for me.<br />
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Sure a car is just a material thing - most people don't care what kind they drive, how it looks, or whatever. I love my car, but there are times when I complain about it; I complain about almost everything in my life at one time or another. But this one lady's comment brought me to a harsh realization: I am not nearly grateful enough for the simple things in my life.<br />
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Because of her, I have had a huge change of perspective on my life. When I'm in a bad mood, it's so easy to list off a million reasons why my life stinks. Now I'm trying a different approach. When I'm in a bad mood, I get into my car, roll down the windows and say, "Go ahead, girl!" and it reminds me that even when I feel like everything is falling apart, I ALWAYS have at least one thing to be grateful for. Thinking of one thing leads to another, and another, and soon I'm listing off all the reasons why I'm so lucky. <br />
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And that makes me feel pretty darn good - even if it all starts with something as insignificant as a Mustang. <br />
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<br />Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-40551459766007336792012-04-08T13:15:00.006-06:002012-04-12T00:22:42.890-06:00Sometimes, It's Just HardWay back in January, the Red Rockettes coaches announced that there would be a real, live, put-on-your-big-girl-no-pants bout against the Black Diamond Divas. The BDDs are one of the Wasatch Roller Derby home teams. They're the real deal. Until now, we've only scrimmaged against each other, and twice against the Happy Valley Derby Darlins. The thought of playing against a Wasatch team scared most of us, and it really <span style="font-style: italic;">really</span> scared me.<br /><br />It's been a long, stressful road to this bout. For the last three months, this bout has been a source of motivation, pressure, competition, stress, intensity, and terror. For starters, our mamas had to create a roster of only fourteen players out of a pool of fifty. Fifty girls competing for fourteen spots creates a lot of pressure. But it also creates a lot of motivation to make attendance, work hard, and get picked for the final roster.<br /><br />We went through three rounds of cuts over these months before the final roster was announced. Fifty was scaled back to about twenty-five; twenty-five went down to seventeen, then the final fourteen bout players were officially announced a few weeks ago. We knew three of those spots belonged to the mamas, so we were really competing for only eleven spots. After each round of cuts, an updated list was emailed to the group. When I made it through the first round, I breathed a sigh of relief and the lump of anxiety in my stomach started to grow.<br /><br />When I made it through the second round, I fist pumped and told myself, "This is enough. Making it this far is good enough for me." There was much rejoicing in Bone land. Then...<br /><br />What has two thumbs and made it on the final roster? This gal.<br /><br />And what has two thumbs, made the roster, and has been self-imploding ever since?<br /><br />Also this gal.<br /><br />It's not that I'm ungrateful or not flattered to have been picked; I am incredibly humbled and appreciative that I made it this far. It blows me away that the mamas have enough faith in my abilities to put me on the track alongside them, and against really tough components. But along with the flattery came feelings of guilt, because there are so many girls who deserve this more than me. There are girls who never miss a practice, they work their butts off, they go to the extra practices, and their positive attitudes are contagious.<br /><br />Then there's me. I've been beating myself up this entire session, for a million different reasons. My skills aren't improving, I keep gaining weight, I'm tired all the time, I'm slow on the track, I let negative people get to me, on and on. I feel like I've lost my drive to get better, which makes me feel even worse because I know that's my choice, that's in my control, and I haven't done anything to change it. I have only myself to blame. I haven't even wanted to blog in over a month, I haven't followed up on my three-part series for the Rockettes, nothing. That's how I really know it's gotten bad - I've had zero motivation.<br /><br />Plus my anxiety over turning thirty hasn't helped at all. I remember Manna telling me months ago, "Once your body hits thirty, it's all downhill from there." I didn't think my body could go downhill any faster, but apparently it's only going to get worse. (Note: actually turning thirty wasn't bad at all, thanks to all the people who made it amazing, but that's for another post.) It was just the <span style="font-style: italic;">idea</span> of being thirty that was depressing me.<br /><br />The roster skaters (we're in the process of coming up with an official name for the bout. I think it's something along the lines of Bloody Sphincters or something like that) have been scrimmaging against everyone else. "Everyone Else" means all the other Rockettes, along with any Wasatch or Salt City derby girls who come to scrimmage.<br /><br />Last week, there were lots of Wasatch girls who came to play. And when I say they came to play, <span style="font-style: italic;">they came to play. </span>Many of the Wasatch girls came from the all-star team, Midnight Terror. Midnight Terror skaters are the best of the best; they're like celebrities to me - just hearing their names makes me pee a little. Girls like Skull Candy, Skatey Gaga, and Harry Slaughter. They're terrifying, and I was out on the track with them.<br /><br />So how did I handle it? Well, the first time I went out, I stuck my pointer finger up Skull Candy's butt. Literally, I think I poked her butthole. I wish I could tell you how exactly this happened, bit all I know is that it did. And she wasn't even phased! She gave me kind of a weird look, and then proceeded to leave me in her dust as she sped off.<br /><br />This is so typical Bone. I go out there, determined to make a good impression on my derby idols, and instead I violated the butt of one of the most amazing jammers you'll ever see. I desperately wanted them to think I was cool, and then I spent the rest of the night telling everyone to smell my finger.<br /><br />It was a hard scrimmage. Our bench manager (who also happens to be my derby wife) did an amazing job of putting our lineups together, and trying to figure out what works best. I tried to listen, I tried to do what I was told, but nothing was working. Every jam, I felt like I spent all my time falling behind and trying to catch up. I was slow, out of breath, weak, and taking up space on the track. I felt like I was fresh meat all over again, and I was mentally beating myself up.<br /><br />But I kept a brave face and didn't fall apart. I was actually doing pretty well until Bruiser Ego came over to me at the end.<br /><br />You know how there are certain people that you never ever want to let down? You don't want them to see you when you're weak or vulnerable; you never want to disappoint them. That's how Bruiser is for me. She came over and hugged me, and I just lost it. I was sobbing on her shoulder, hoping that no one would notice.<br /><br />I whispered through my tears, "I don't belong here. They made a huge mistake putting me on this roster, I shouldn't even <span style="font-style: italic;">be </span>out there. I don't belong here."<br /><br />Of course Bruiser was sweet and comforting, and she gave me words of encouragement. She said, "You absolutely do belong here."<br /><br />She didn't blow smoke up my ass by trying to build me up with false compliments, she wasn't just being nice; I really believed her when she said that I belonged there. Maybe I just needed to have a moment, and it just happened to be on Bruiser's shoulder. But she said exactly what I needed to hear.<br /><br />I <span style="font-style: italic;">do </span>belong with the Rockettes, even if it's only to make people laugh because I stuck my finger up Skull Candy's butt.Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-47373707779362448572012-03-05T15:41:00.004-07:002012-03-05T16:16:34.212-07:00I Could Sell Anything to Anyone<span style="font-size:100%;">The following is a word for word instant message conversation between myself and a good friend from derby. I promised her I wouldn't reveal her true name, so to protect her innocence, I'll just tell you that her skate name starts with a K and rhymes with shmid. She and her husband, Shmory, have been discussing purchasing a hedgehog, and she asked for my opinion. Which was her first mistake. And apparently she trusts me impeccably.<br /></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shmid:</span> Shmory and I were just talking about getting a baby hedgehog. I was looking at pics and they are so so cute!</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone:</span> They’re not so cute when they poop all over the place and stab you with their spines. Plus they smell really really bad.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shmid:</span> They do? Have you had one before? You know a lot about this. We have been doing some research</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone:</span> Yes I do know a lot about this because I used to own one. Her name was Dolly, after Dolly Parton. She wore little tennis shoes, and ran everywhere really fast all the time. But she smelled really bad and shredded everything up.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shmid: </span>Bummer, I have always wanted one. I love animals and I thought it would be a great addition to the family. We have been researching it for a month or so. We are concerned it may not get along with our dog though.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone:</span> It will probably kill your dog. It killed my mouse, Whitney.</span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shmid:</span> What?!?!?! How does it kill?</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone:</span> With its claws and teeth.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shmid:</span> And you think it could kill my dog? Why?</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone: </span>You have a tiny dog. And the hedgehog goes for soft parts, like the throat and belly. They are SUPER territorial.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shmid:</span> OMG I haven't read/heard that. I read that they love to cuddle, need lots of attention, are very fragile and very friendly.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Okay well you just made my mind up.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone:</span> And, it not only killed Whitney, but then it ATE HER. And started to go after my other mouse, Eleanor.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shmid:</span> I'm not getting one if it's going to hurt or kill my dog</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone:</span> Dolly ripped one of Eleanor’s legs off.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shmid:</span> What?!?!?! Holy shit, that sounds evil!</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone:</span> Yeah, they're mean. I really think it would kill your dog.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shmid:</span> OMG, we haven't read that at all. My dog is my LIFE, so never mind. I'm glad I said something to you.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone:</span> When I found them, Dolly had already killed and partially eaten Whitney, and she was CHEWING on Eleanor’s detached leg. And when I tried to get close to get the leg back, she totally snarled and growled at me. And hissed too.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shmid: </span>All we have read is that they are super friendly and cuddly! Your poor mice!</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone: </span>Where are you reading all this?? Because it all sounds INSANE and clearly these people don’t know what they’re talking about!</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shmid:</span> On several different sites. And Shmory works with a guy that had one. He said his was super friendly! Did Eleanor live?</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone:</span> No, she bled to death after her leg got chewed off. It was horribly tragic.<br /></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shmid:</span> That’s so sad. Did you get rid of Dolly after that?</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone:</span> We were going to have her put down, but she got out and our neighbor whacked her with a broom and flattened her.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shmid:</span> OMG</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone: </span>We didn't even know what had happened to her until like a month later when our neighbor was talking about this rodent that came up on her porch. She freaked out because it had a BIRD in its mouth, like it had killed a bird and was eating it on her porch.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shmid:</span> Didn't you keep her in a cage?</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone:</span> Yeah but we let her walk around the house, which is how she got into the mouse cage in the first place. She climbed up there and massacred them.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shmid:</span> Damn it I wanted one so bad. You totally scared me out of it. I'm super glad I talked to you about it.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone: </span>Hedgehogs are assholes, that's all I’m saying.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shmid:</span> Good to know. I will pre-approve all my pet purchases with you first. I just told Shmory we are NOT getting one cause it will kill our toy poodle and rip open her stomach and eat her. I just had no idea they were so mean!</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" > </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone:</span> You also didn’t know they hunted birds and killed things with their claws. </span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone:</span> Also, none of what I just told you is true.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone: </span>Except that I did have white mice named Eleanor and Whitney.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" >…..</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shmid: </span>YOU’RE such an ASSHOLE!!!!</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; line-height: normal; font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style=" ;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bone: </span>I know, right? But I really did have mice, I promise. </span></span></p>Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-30816766342929707152012-01-30T11:22:00.008-07:002012-01-31T12:33:02.891-07:00Innuendo? No; Literally, In MY EndoLast fall there was a deal on Groupon that I couldn't resist: $39 for one colon hydrotherapy session. I'd been interested in having a colon cleanse for a long time - I love reading the testimonials from people who get it done, talking about all the crazy stuff that comes out of their butt.<br /><br />I tried to do a home cleanse once, called The Royal Flush (thank you, Andi) and every time I pooed it smelled like burned tire rubber, so I at least got a little gratification that it was working. But that cleanse was several days, and I wasn't allowed to eat or drink anything except apple cider vinegar and capsules of fiber and psyllium or something. I couldn't last the full seven days; I had to eat something solid. Like Burger King and cake.<br /><br />When this deal came across, I jumped at the chance because it's normally much more expensive. And I was morbidly curious about what kind of crazy stuff would come out of my butt. If you need an explanation of what colon hydrotherapy is, I suggest you Google it, but be prepared for some gnarly pictures that might come up.<br /><br />Basically, a tube goes up your butt, fills your intestines with water, and then you push it back out. I was not aware of that last bit; I thought it all would just drain out on its own. But I was sorely mistaken about that, and about a lot of things. After a few days have passed, I've been able to look back at the things that should have clued me in that this whole thing was one big mistake.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Clue #1: The "Wellness Clinic" was actually just her house.</span><br />Maybe I should've just turned around right then, because there wasn't even a business license on display anywhere, just lots of water features and bamboo plants. And a sign that told me to take my shoes off.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Clue #2: She was </span><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">mad</span><span style="font-weight: bold;"> at me and scolded me repeatedly for arriving fifteen minutes early, even though she had no other clients there at the time. </span><br />Her "clinic" was in another town, I didn't know how long it would take me to get there, I expected that I'd have to fill out paperwork, etc, so I planned some extra time. I was only there fifteen minutes early, and she kept saying, "You're not even supposed to BE here yet..." Seriously? There was no one else there! She had more than one room to accommodate clients! But she made comments about how she'd have to put "Mike" in the other room because I wasn't even supposed to BE there. She was saying really snarky things, but she had some kind of accent, either Australian or South African, so everything <span style="font-style: italic;">sounded </span>deceptively nice and sing-songy, but really she was being snippy.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Clue #3: There was no paperwork to fill out, no client history questionnaire, no nothing.</span><br />She didn't ask me about what I ate, how sedentary I was, if I consumed more than one jar of peanut butter a week...nothing. No discussion at all. I think she was too pissed at me for arriving early (the horror!) to care at all about my nutritional state.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Clue #4: She insisted on calling me Tara. </span><br />Even after I corrected her at least three times. "No, it's Sarah. Sssssssssssssssssssssssssarah." She'd respond with, "Okay, Tara." I mean geeze lady, you're sticking a tube up my butt, the least you can do is get my name right.<br /><br style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Clue #5: She had absolutely no sense of humor.</span><br />What a waste, considering her line of work. Since it was clear that she was making no effort to make me feel less awkward, I took it upon myself to try and cut the tension by making jokes. They were not appreciated, because apparently tubes in the butt is "very serious business" and "is <span style="font-style: italic;">not</span> to be mocked at all."<br /><br />Those things should have clued me in, but I was committed to the experience and I pushed through. Literally. Like when she stood next to me as I was laying there, being filled with water, and she asked me if I felt like I had to <span style="font-style: italic;">go.<br /></span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Me</span>: Um, yes? But I always feel like I have to go...<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Her</span>: Okay, I want you to <span style="font-style: italic;">PUSH</span> IT OUT! PUSH! PUSH! GO GO <span style="font-style: italic;">GO</span>!<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Me</span>: You want me to...go? Like, <span style="font-style: italic;">GO</span> go? Right here in front of you?<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Her</span>: Yes! GO GO GO! <span style="font-style: italic;">PUSH PUSH PUSH</span>!<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Me</span>: I don't know if I can do that...<br /><span style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-style: italic;"><br /></span></span></span>I turned my head to the side as if I was being shamed, and tried to push<span style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-style: italic;">.</span></span></span> I<span style="font-style: italic;"> felt </span>like I was pushing, but when you have a tube up your butt, everything just feels wrong. I obviously wasn't doing it right because she huffed impatiently and ROLLED HER EYES. Then she pushed down on my stomach, and I'm really shocked that I didn't have a massive explosion.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Her</span>: Well, you're very full, and you're belly is <span style="font-style: italic;">so</span> distended even when you're <span style="font-style: italic;">not </span>full, so I know you have to go. So,<span style="font-style: italic;"> GO</span>!<br /><br />I glared at her because thanks lady, I KNOW I have a distended belly, that's why I'm <span style="font-style: italic;">here</span>. Then I closed my eyes in shame, and pushed...and I heard a little trickle somewhere off in the distance. It was very faint, and there was an echo; like a garden hose slowly dripping into a big empty rain barrel. And I giggled, which apparently is not acceptable, because she glared at me, and said, "We're just getting a little spurt, and we want it to flow. We want it to<span style="font-style: italic;"> flooooooooooow</span>. So, when you feel like you need to go, I want you to <span style="font-style: italic;">GO</span>!"<br /><br />Again, nothing but a trickle. At which point she sighed again and literally threw her hands up. "Maybe you have a problem going with me in the room, so I'm going to step out."<br /><br />Yes, lady, I have a very serious "problem" with pushing out my bowels while you stand next to me, yelling at me like a pissed-off cheerleader. Who WOULDN'T have a problem in that situation?<br /><br />So she left me there in peace, watching a vegan propaganda video about how we should never ever consume any animal products whatsoever. I'll be honest, I didn't put much stock into it because it looked like it was produced in the '70s and all the "doctors" weren't really doctors.<br /><br />She popped her head in every few minutes to ask, "How's it going, Tara?" and would pop back out without even waiting for me to respond. So that made me feel really special.<br /><br />I knew exactly when her next client arrived, because they were right outside the door and I could hear every word of their conversation. Which means they could hear everything going on in my room. I had finally gotten into a groove of feeling full, pushing it out, and hearing a satisfying flow go into the mysterious bin <span style="font-style: italic;">(I still have no idea where it was, or what it really was, because everything was behind a curtain. And yes, I tried to look behind the curtain but there was only a sealed tank. It's all a mystery to me.)</span><br /><br />I was told that I'd get an hour long session, but after thirty minutes, she came in and announced that I was ready to go off.<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Me</span>: Are you sure? Because I still feel pretty full. I think there's still some stuff up there.<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Her</span>: No, no, you're done. Just spray yourself off with that nozzle and you can go.<br /><br />I kind of felt violated and confused about what had just happened. What <span style="font-style: italic;">had </span>just happened? I didn't feel any different, and I didn't even get to see anything that came out, which I was really curious about. It was a total let down.<br /><br />She ushered me out so quickly that I didn't have a chance to ask her any questions about aftercare<span style="font-style: italic;"> (What should I expect over the next few hours? Should I have wrapped my seat in plastic before I drive away?)</span> She said absolutely nothing except "Goodbye", making it very clear that she had no time for questions.<br /><br />I walked out to her driveway and saw that there was a shiny new Mercedes parked behind me now. I immediately became paranoid about hitting it, and I was so focused on using my side mirrors to back out perfectly straight, that I backed straight into the huge tree that was directly behind me. Right into the huge tree that I would've seen if I'd bothered to even glance in my rear view mirror, instead of depending solely on my side mirrors.<br /><br />Adding insult to injury, when I hit the tree, my body jolted forward and hit the horn. So I had made it impossible to just quietly hit the tree and sneak off. I cussed loudly, jumped out to check the bumper (scratched but not dented), did a fifty-point turn to get out of the driveway, and burned rubber getting out of there. Humiliating, because I'm sure she just watched the whole thing unfold from her window.<br /><br />I thought maybe I should've gone in and told her that I backed into her tree, but then I realized, what's she going to do? I can just drive away and she can spend the rest of her life trying to track down Tara.<br /><br />Good luck with that.Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-88172955631206168722012-01-24T14:57:00.010-07:002012-01-24T22:43:22.189-07:00Teach Me How to BoneA lot of people have asked me how I always seem to get my way when there's something I want. I don't say that in an I'm-a-spoiled-brat kind of way; I say that in an I-fight-for-what-I-want-and-I-usually-win kind of way. Which probably sounds just as bad as being a spoiled brat (or worse) but the facts don't lie: more often than not, I get my way.<br /><br />I'm here to tell you that you don't have to be a raging bitch to get what you want. You don't even have to <span style="font-style: italic;">fight</span> for what you want, but there are a few tricks I've learned over the years about how to do this, especially when it comes to businesses. I'll use my recent experience with Big-O Tires as an example. Judge me all you want, but this is just how I roll.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">1. Boobs have nothing to do with it; neither does being female. In fact, these things usually work against you.</span><br />Let's just get this out of the way up front, because it's always the first reaction I get when I recount my latest victory. "Oh it's just because you have boobs." "Oh it's just because you're a girl." No, it's not, because these are the things that people instantly use as an opportunity to take advantage of you. Guys, think what you want, but my experience has been that as soon as I walk into a car dealership, mechanic, or any other predominantly-male environment, I'm viewed as an easy target - until I open my mouth. I do not rely on my chest or gender to get me what I want. Which brings me to point number two.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">2. Go in prepared, or at least act like you are. </span><br />Knowledge and confidence are the most important things that will work in your favor, especially when dealing with places like mechanics. They are banking on the fact that they know more than you, and that they are the expert. <span style="font-style: italic;">You </span>need to be the expert. Knowing as much as you can about the matter will always give you the upper hand. Wait, scratch that, you don't even need to <span style="font-style: italic;">really </span>know that much, but if you <span style="font-style: italic;">act</span> like you do, it's almost as good. This is where the confidence comes in, because if you <span style="font-style: italic;">act</span> like you know what you're talking about, and if you assert yourself and speak with confidence, it goes a long way.<br /><br />But it definitely helps to be prepared. Know thy enemy, right? Like when Big-O told me my alignment was off, I jumped on my phone to brush up on the differences between the caster, camber, and toe; because when they threw these big words at me, they were counting on me to be clueless. I quickly became an expert on all things alignment, and I was ready when they came at me.<br /><br />Let me preface this by saying the only reason I went to a chain like Big-O is because I got a good hook-up when I bought new wheels and tires, and at the time I was told that everything was covered under a full warranty. And they gave me four free snow tires, but that's a whole different story. I don't like to deal with chains - the only reason I go to the Ford dealership is because everything is still under warranty. Otherwise, I avoid the big name shops and prefer to stick to the one-man-bands.<br /><br />So when I noticed that my right front tire was low, I reluctantly took it to the nearest Big-O, figuring they'd do a standard patch job and I'd be on my way. Boy was I wrong. I'll try my best to make a long story short, so here are the facts as they were presented to me by the manager:<br /><br />Him: "There's a screw in your tire, but the whole tire needs to be replaced because the tire has separated from the wheel in this one spot, and that's because there's something wrong with your alignment that's causing the tire to wear unevenly. See how your tire is completely bald just on the inside edge just in this four inch strip? So we can order you a new tire, but it's not covered under warranty, and you'll have to pay a prorated amount for the wear you've already put on the tire."<br /><br />Me: "These tires are supposed to have a full warranty for the life of the tire."<br /><br />Him: "Yeeeeeeeeeeah, I don't know who told you that, but they were misinformed."<br /><br />Me, pointing at my warranty documentation: "Well, see, it says right here, there's a full manufacturer's warranty for the life of the tire."<br /><br />Him: "Yeeeeeeeeeeeeah, but that's only if there's a defect in the tire itself, not if there's a defect with your car."<br /><br />Me, fighting the urge to respond to the 'your car has a defect' comment: "Well, based on what you're telling me, the tire is wearing only in that one spot because my alignment is off, right? I haven't noticed any pulling in the steering..."<br /><br />Him: "Yeeeeeeeeeeeeah, um, if the alignment isn't noticeably off, the tire has probably worn down so much because significant mileage has been put on it in while it's been in that position, and you haven't rotated it enough."<br /><br />Me: "So any tire in that position (the right front) would wear the same way, right?"<br /><br />Him: "Yeeeeeeeeeeeeah."<br /><br />Me: "Well that's interesting, because none of my other tires have worn like that, and I just had them rotated 2,000 miles ago, so if the alignment was off by <span style="font-style: italic;">that</span> much, wouldn't the other tires have worn the same way when they were in that position? And based on what you said, the alignment would have to be significantly off for the tire to have become BALD in one FOUR INCH SECTION after less than 2,000 miles right? If the <span style="font-style: italic;">alignment</span> was the problem, wouldn't you have noticed when you rotated my tires? Wouldn't you have noticed if another tire was wearing like that?"<br /><br />Him: "Ummmmmmmmm..."<br /><br />Which brings me to my next tactic:<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">3. Question, question, question until you fully understand.</span><br />I was trying to get him to explain it to me like I'm a four-year-old, and so I could then throw it back in his face.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">4. Throw it back in their face. </span><br />Me: "It sounds to me like this is a defect in the actual tire, not the car, so it should be covered under the manufacturer's warranty."<br /><br />Him: "Um, you'll have to pay for the wear you've already put on it."<br /><br />Me: "Yeeeeeeeeah, I'm not going to pay for anything, because it clearly says here that there is a <span style="font-style: italic;">full manufacturer's warranty for the life of the tire."<br /></span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">5. Rinse, restate, rephrase and repeat as long as necessary.</span><br />This is when most people give up because they're just tired of dealing with the problem or the person. You have to be willing to either go the distance, or be okay with not getting what you want. Honestly, this is the principle at the heart of Boning someone - I'm never willing to give up and be okay with getting less than what I feel I deserve (or paid for). I will question, debate, repeat and rephrase until I'm blue in the face. This is how I got my car for thousands below MSRP, along with a custom paint job, two custom grilles, an extended warranty, and free oil changes for a year. Not because I yelled and kicked and screamed (that didn't come until later, when they tried to back out of their promises) but because I was willing to sit there and go fifteen rounds with them. And up until this point, I don't even have to raise my voice, bob my head, or jab my finger. However...<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">#6. When all else fails, don't be afraid to cause a scene. </span><br />It doesn't usually come to this, but I have no shame. Because here's the thing: I am fiercely loyal when I'm treated well. I've followed the same <span style="font-style: italic;">one guy</span> from shop to shop for the last ten years because I like the way <span style="font-style: italic;">he</span> deals with me. Wherever he goes, they get my business because he treats me right. But I'm also fiercely vindictive, because if you cross me, I won't just quietly take my business elsewhere. I'll obnoxiously badmouth you as I make a production of taking my business elsewhere.<br /><br />No place of business, especially a crowded place of business, wants negative attention drawn to them. And Big-O, on a Saturday afternoon with a sitting area full of people is the perfect place to throw a fit if steps #1-#5 didn't get the job done. And no, I'm not above raising my voice, bobbing my head, slamming my hand on the counter, drawing attention to myself - whatever it takes if reason and logic didn't get through the manager's thick skull.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">This </span>is how I ended up getting what I wanted, which is two brand new tires (because it's kind of pointless to replace only one). This after I demanded that they test the alignment on my car, which proved to be absolutely fine, which led to him admitting that it <span style="font-style: italic;">was</span> a defect in the tire, and would thus be covered under the manufacturer's warranty. This in turn led me to "suggest" that they adjust my alignment from the preferred manufacturer's settings (normal) to a performance alignment, which will give me better tire tread life as the 'Stang corners like it's on rails. The look on his face was priceless when I explained that I wanted maximum negative camber, maximum positive caster, and preferred toe settings, and that I wanted it for free because of the hour-long hassle they'd put me through. Because then he really knew that <span style="font-style: italic;">I knew what I was talking about, </span>and I meant business.<br /><br />So, the best advice I can give you when fighting for your cause is to remember G.I. Joe: Knowing is half the battle. The rest is not giving up, and not being afraid to draw a little attention to the situation.<br /><br />And that's how Bone does it.Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-92222713075636965442012-01-05T10:44:00.005-07:002012-01-05T15:00:35.008-07:00One Year DerbyversaryToday marks exactly one year since I strapped on my gear and skated with the Rockettes for the very first time. I can't believe it's been an entire year, and I can't believe how much my life has changed because of joining the Rockettes.<br /><br />A year ago, I could barely stand up on skates, let alone take a hit, and forget hitting someone. I couldn't fall properly, which I learned the hard way by falling all. The. Time. I was scared of <span style="font-style: italic;">everything, </span>and was terrified of being a failure.<br /><br />A year ago, I had a handful of close friends and I'm pretty sure they were all growing weary of my constant neediness. I'd been working three jobs and had no balance in my life - pretty much all I did was work, eat Burger King, and have emotional meltdowns. My poor sister - between trying to make <span style="font-style: italic;">me</span> stop crying, and trying to make her two-year-old daughter stop crying; she had her hands full.<br /><br />Then all at once, things started to change, and now I know why. I was offered a position at work that allowed me to finally cut back to one job for the first time in years. My previous schedule had me going from a full-time day job straight to a part-time night job Monday - Thursday, and then a different job on the weekends. Suddenly I had all of my nights free and I had no idea what I would do with myself. Then Gina brought up the idea of roller derby, the stars aligned to get me my first pair of incredibly sucky Big-5 skates, and the rest is history.<br /><br />But it's more than just history. The Rockettes have become such a big part of my life that it's impossible to imagine my life now without them. Learning how to skate and play derby has been one of the most challenging things I've ever done. It has been both the most inflating and the most deflating thing to my ego. There were times when I cried the whole way home after practice, and times when I've wanted to cry out of sheer elation. I wanted to quit more often then I'd like to admit, but every time I go back, I can't imagine ever leaving.<br /><br />Now I find myself surrounded by friends, and not a day goes by without a chat, text or phone call from at least one derby girl. I found an entire community of people who support, love, and encourage each other. Sure there's drama - good luck getting fifty girls together without there being <span style="font-style: italic;">some </span>kind of drama - but none if it matters in the long run. It's impossible for me to express my thanks to everyone.<br /><br />To keep this short and sweet, I'll end on this note: there's a popular phrase that says, "Roller derby saved my soul." As nice as that sounds, I don't agree with it; because with all the ups and downs, confidence highs and lows, blood, sweat and tears, it isn't roller derby that saved me - it's the Red Rockettes.Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-38881001126421784182011-12-29T16:34:00.001-07:002011-12-29T16:36:06.669-07:00Merry Christmas and Happy New Year<div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-Z8OapCdhl4jYSR63RVxVSB8c_TIKdlDg-Ic42gTdsD0Gc20ruDAigSKylpLu3CHdLGXEf1MtptmRluAgUnxTJfPppaerh7-NjNM7n9AGumIlcDoz6djYOrQ8amguF_A71Aqbww/s1600/Bone+Card.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 291px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-Z8OapCdhl4jYSR63RVxVSB8c_TIKdlDg-Ic42gTdsD0Gc20ruDAigSKylpLu3CHdLGXEf1MtptmRluAgUnxTJfPppaerh7-NjNM7n9AGumIlcDoz6djYOrQ8amguF_A71Aqbww/s400/Bone+Card.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5691697958544833410" border="0" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center; font-weight: bold;">May your year be less terrifying than playing roller derby.<br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Much Love, Bone</span><br /></div>Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-52468647927903026102011-12-28T10:46:00.002-07:002011-12-28T10:51:00.165-07:00Guest Blogger: Kid SeditiousWhen Bone asked me to be her guest blogger I didn't know quite what to say or even how to describe my overwhelming feelings about the recent scrimmage we had against The Happy Valley Derby Darlings. From the day I first saw the girls of Happy Valley they scared the crap out of me, starting with their makeup enhanced black eyes right down to their intimidating pink leggings. Yes, that's right these women make the color pink look terrifying. Since I hadn't passed my minimum skills yet I didn't have the opportunity to scrimmage against them the first time in September but I did scream my guts out for The Red Rockettes. While watching the first scrimmage I remember thinking to myself, "Self, you can do this. We are leading by a ton and these girls are on a similar playing level we are on and by the time we play them again I will practically be playing derby for the US championship team". Man was I delusional. I quickly realized that was <span style="font-style: italic;">so </span>not the case.<div> <br /></div><div>Once December 1st hit, the anxiety kicked in. I was so not looking forward to the upcoming scrimmage against Happy Valley. I had to force myself to not think about it by planning ridiculous parties where if I consumed enough jello shots I wouldn't care anymore. Before you knew it, the day was here. Bone, being as awesome and amazing as she is, was forced into calming me down every 15 minutes on Google chat. But even her pep talks weren't helping and I was seriously considering not playing at all. So she had no choice but to resort to lower levels or persuasion. BLACKMAIL. I won't tell you how she blackmailed me but if I didn't skate, the whole team would have been furious at me. <br /><br />As hard as I tried to get sick (by licking my company's computer keyboard's and phones) I just never caught a bug. So I had to eventually put on my big girl no pants panties and do it!! I was panicked all day and by the time 5 o'clock rolled around I was literally shaking (some might have called it a seizure). As I pulled into the Derby Depot I could fill the hard shell taco that I forced down earlier coming back up. I could barely stand let alone skate. But as soon as I walked through that door and realized I would be on the same team as the toughest derby girls I know I started to calm down. Instead of being concussed by Margie Ram (which might I add still happened) I would get to block with her, instead of hiding from Bruiser Ego I was actually seeking her out, instead of freezing up every time Wanton so much as looked at me I was slapping her butt and the list of skaters I was honored to skate with goes on and on. And yes, Bone was right, as soon as I was out there skating with my girls my nerves just floated away. </div> <div><br /></div><div>I laced up my skates, put my game face on (which ironically looks like an, "oh my, did I just crap myself" face) and made my way over to our bench. All I can say is what a rush. Turns out Happy Valley worked their asses off since our first scrimmage against them. I have never seen a whole team improve as quickly as they did. Their jammers were faster, their blockers more aggressive and turns out I wasn't as good as the US championship team. They beat us, and by a lot. <br /><br />But to my surprise I wasn't even upset they won, because I had the time of my life. The best part of this whole experience was watching Vakilla knock around their girls and push them out time and time again, and watching Galaticat put us on the board by scoring our first points, and feeling the breeze from Temper as she zoomed past our bench, and laughing as Wanton harassed their jammers similar to the way a cougar plays with her pray before she kills them, and cheering on Italy and Jupiter as they fight to score points and having Babe right there ready to flash me every time I felt the nerves start to creep up again, just to name a few. </div> <div><br /></div>I'm still a little shaky on skates and not a tough as I want to be, but I'm told if I just stick with it and push myself I will get better. And for the record, I plan on working my ass off so the next time we scrimmage against Happy Valley I'm hoping they walk away being terrified of Kid Seditious.Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-7571817552033974972011-11-28T14:51:00.011-07:002011-12-01T14:16:18.708-07:00Not My Finest Moment, But MaybeLet's just get this out of the way up front: I yelled the F-word at a 13-year-old girl. As in, "Eff you!" except I said the whole word, and I yelled it at her in a public place.<br /><br />In my defense, she called me a bitch first. In her defense, it was because I didn't move out of the way of her and her stupid friends, so my shopping bags nailed them as they shoved past me. In my defense, I think I won.<br /><br />Let me explain a little bit about my nature. It's my belief that enough bitching will get you just about anything. A lot of people would disagree with me and say that kindness and taking the high road are the keys to getting what you want, but in my experience, the high road is extremely overrated and not nearly as satisfying as taking the low road.<br /><br />I've thought about starting a side business that would let people hire me to resolve their conflicts for them. More than one friend has called upon me to deal with situations that they themselves don't want to handle. Your neighbor is a loud-mouth lady with five different baby daddies and kids who throw chicken bones and used maxi pads into your yard and you don't like confrontation? No problem, I'll call the landlord and complain <span style="font-style: italic;">for </span>you. You're not happy with the crappy racing stripe stickers installed by the dealership? Don't worry, I'll bitch and moan until you get those stripes customized and painted on. For free. Did the windshield of your Mustang get cracked because a big ass rock flew off a big ass truck while you were driving through construction and everyone told you it was a waste of time to complain because the big ass construction company will <span style="font-style: italic;">never </span>accept responsibility and replace your windshield? Leave it to Bone, because you <span style="font-style: italic;">will </span>get a new windshield. Free. And I did.<br /><br />For most people, life is easier when you don't kick and scream your way through it. For me, I like to have the last word. In everything. Keep in mind, I spent Halloween arguing with my four-year-old nephew over why my Batman costume was better than his. (The correct answer is because my mask had angry eyebrows, and his just had shapely eyebrows.)<br /><br />It's not like I go through life looking for a fight. Granted, there <span style="font-style: italic;">are</span> days when I need to blow off some steam and I'm just waiting for someone to do <span style="font-style: italic;">something </span>that I don't like. I glare at people, daring them to cut me off or steal my parking spot, just so I can feel justified in yelling and shaking my fist. Is it mature? No, but it feels good.<br /><br />Black Friday was one of "those" days. Technically it was Black Friday, but actually it all started late Thursday night when I was standing in line at Best Buy, hoping against all odds to score one of the cheap televisions. When the employees started bringing vouchers around for the big ticket items, I tried to bring levity to the situation by asking them all, "Is this a ticket for the donut maker? That's why I'm standing in line for hours in the rain - because I <span style="font-style: italic;">really </span>want that donut maker." In case you're wondering, they never did bring around tickets for the donut maker, and also, I didn't get a tv.<br /><br />So we headed to the mall at midnight to brave the crowds there. I've never been to the mall at midnight on Black Friday, so I was looking forward to a new experience. I was prepared for crowds and long lines, but what I was <span style="font-style: italic;">not </span>prepared for was the sheer number of unsupervised, unkempt, rude, snotty, scantily clad prostitots.<br /><br />Prostitots are tween girls dressed like prostitutes, and they. Are. Everywhere. Growing up, we were never allowed to "hang out" at the mall, and now I understand why: because the barely-teenage kids who aimlessly wander around the mall look like trash; plain and simple. They serve no purpose except to congregate in gaggles, get in my way, and piss me off. These kids were not there to shop, they weren't there for the killer deals and midnight specials. They were there to hang out with their friends, wearing gobs of makeup and jeans with so many holes that they may as well have been wearing no pants at all.<br /><br />My annoyance had reached its breaking point after standing in line at Victoria's Secret, surrounded by dozens of said prostitots. I wanted to shout at them, "You are twelve years old! What are you doing at Victoria's Secret! Stand up straight, wash that whore makeup off and go eat something!" Because another thing - they all look like freaking swizzle sticks. They are the poster children for body image issues and eating disorders.<br /><br />Maybe I'm just getting more crabby in my old age, but these kids were making my blood pressure rise. But you're not allowed to yell at them, because even though they're wearing a whore's uniform, they're still just kids and an angry mob will chase you out of the mall if you yell at a kid. So I bit my tongue, and when they pushed me, I silently pushed them back. When they stepped on my toes, I swung my bags extra wide as I turned around and "accidentally" hit them.<br /><br />I started to realize that when I reacted in turn, no one said anything, no one pushed back - the group of girls continued on their blissfully ignorant way. They weren't even phased...which kind of pissed me off more. I wanted them to understand that I was taking a stand against their generation; and they weren't giving me any satisfaction.<br /><br />I gave up trying to get out of their way and avoid them when blocked a doorway or took up the entire aisle. I started pushing my way through without saying "Excuse me", and I made sure to glare at them. Really hard. If I couldn't yell at them, I'd let my slitty eyes do the talking for me. This was about the point when the soon-to-be benefactor of my wrath came prancing along, leading her gaggle of prostitots like the pied piper. I saw them coming, I knew they weren't going to move out of my way, I knew I <span style="font-style: italic;">could </span>have moved out of <span style="font-style: italic;">their</span> way, but I just didn't want to.<br /><br />So I barreled my way through them, my shopping bags knocked into them, and I felt smugly satisfied as I heard their pissy gasps of annoyance. Then their fearless leader yelled, "Bitch!" and my annoyance got the better of me. Oh hell no, this little snot did not just call <span style="font-style: italic;">me </span>that. My first thought was to go back and swing my bags at her head, but I showed restraint - and we know how the rest of the story goes.<br /><br />Am I proud of stooping to the maturity level of a tween? Not really, but it felt really good...and I got the last word. I may have lost at getting a TV, but I consider this a win at life.Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-2211601658783988302011-11-17T13:46:00.004-07:002011-11-17T14:07:58.451-07:00Sorry That I Have An Awesome Sense of Humor and No One Else DoesI realized today that I am cursed. Cursed to work in an industry absolutely <span style="font-style: italic;">full </span>of dirty innuendos (in YOUR endo! snicker snicker) that absolutely no one else thinks are funny. Ever.<br /><br />I am cursed to sit through boring meetings full of men over 40, most of whom are engineers, and all of whom have absolutely no sense of humor whatsoever; otherwise they'd probably re-think their vocabulary. Because just about everything sounds either menstrual or dirty: illicit discharge, flow, wetlands, monthly discharge rate, generating sites of illicit discharge...you get the idea. There's lots of talk about discharge, and it still makes me giggle every. Single. Time.<br /><br />Today I was in one such meeting, when the presenter announced that the EPA has come up with a new slogan to describe the basic idea behind stormwater management. With fervor and enthusiasm, he proclaimed, "<span style="font-weight: bold;">Slow it down! Spread it out! Soak it in</span>!"<br /><br />Blink. Blink.<br /><br />Did I just hear him right? And if I did, why is no one else laughing? I squinted at his power point slide, and then at my handout of the slide, again at the slide...yep, I was right. Slow it down, spread it out, soak it in.<br /><br />That's about the point when I burst out laughing, and I looked around incredulously. Seriously, <span style="font-style: italic;">how</span> is no one else even cracking a smile at this? Do they not realize what he just said? Nothing? Sigh. I really am cursed.<br /><br />I got back to the office and was giving my boss a rundown of the meeting. I started telling it like I was doing a stand-up routine. "And <span style="font-style: italic;">then! </span>Are you ready for this? The slogan is <span style="font-style: italic;">slow </span>it down, <span style="font-style: italic;">spread </span>it out, <span style="font-style: italic;">soak </span>it <span style="font-style: italic;">in! </span>Can you <span style="font-style: italic;">believe </span>that!"<br /><br />Blink. Blink. Chirp. Chirp. I think a tumble weed may have even blown past.<br /><br />"Are you <span style="font-style: italic;">kidding </span>me? How can you not find that the least bit amusing!" I shouted at him.<br /><br />"Probably because not everyone has the sense of humor of a twelve-year-old boy," he replied dryly.<br /><br />So then I asked him if I could make bumper stickers with the new slogan and pass them out to residents, which was met with an immediate veto. So <span style="font-style: italic;">then </span>I asked him if I could make a tshirt that said "Stormwater Managers Slow It Down". Also no.<br /><br />I stood up, undeterred, and declared, "Your life is<span style="font-style: italic;"> completely</span> void of humor and joy. I <span style="font-style: italic;">weep</span> for you." Then I marched out. I don't think it really had the dramatic effect I was hoping for.<br /><br />My sense of humor is completely lost and unappreciated at work.Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-28784587673386840572011-10-12T15:09:00.004-06:002011-10-12T15:51:11.076-06:00Check That Off My Bucket ListI spent the entire week last week at a conference about stormwater. The last two days were training and an exam for a specific certification. I haven't taken a test that long since my SAT's, and afterwards, I crashed and burned, Mav. As in, I was asleep by 7 pm on a Friday and then spent the rest of the weekend sick in bed. Fun times were had by all, I can assure you.<br /><br />Given the extremely exciting and stimulating nature of the conference <span style="font-style: italic;">(I mean, seriously, how much can you talk about illicit discharge? Put a panty liner on it and be done with it, right?) </span>and since two days in a classroom with a dozen male engineers is everyone's idea of a good time, I had to provide my own entertainment. Which I did mostly by giggling to myself a lot, saying <span style="font-style: italic;">"That's what she said"</span> under my breath a lot, and keeping a tally of everything that sounded remotely dirty. Oh, and by getting stuck in the bathroom.<br /><br />We had a twenty-minute break one morning, and being the only female in the building, I headed to the bathroom to <strike>take a dump</strike> kill time. The lights in the bathroom were motion activated, I'd open the door, step into the dark and the lights would kick on. I kept hoping someone would jump out and yell, "Surprise!" but that never happened.<br /><br />So there I was, <strike>taking a dump</strike> playing dirty words with friends on my cell phone, and I must've lost track of time because all of a sudden, the lights turned off, and I was sitting in pitch black darkness. It startled me and I audibly gasped, said, "What the heck?!" and nervously giggled. I waved my arms around a little, expecting the lights to kick back on...but nothing happened.<br /><br />I waved my arms a little more emphatically, and still nothing. I giggled a little more nervously, and waved my arms again. <span style="font-style: italic;">Still</span> nothing. There I sat in total darkness and contemplated my options. I couldn't get up <span style="font-style: italic;">off</span> the toilet; I couldn't hold out hope that another lady would come in and activate the lights - and actually, that probably would've been more embarrassing, to have someone walk into the dark and then find out I'd been sitting there all along. How would I explain that? Hi, I'm just the weirdo sitting here in the dark, no big deal. That's like <span style="font-style: italic;">To Catch a Predator </span>weird.<br /><br />So I did what any normal person would do in this situation - I alternated between frantically waving my hands over my head and clapping, while simultaneously making loud noises like "Ca-CAW! Ca-CAW! Whoop! Whoop!", trying desperately to activate the lights.<br /><br />Nothing.<br /><br />I was running out of time, so I finally accepted my fate, and finished my business in the dark. It wasn't until after I'd gotten up, flushed, fumbled to open the stall, and found my way blindly to the sink that the lights decided to finally come back on. My only saving grace was that I was able to wash my hands in the light and make sure I hadn't made a total mess of myself.<br /><br />So I guess I can check that off my bucket list. You know how the old saying goes: you haven't <span style="font-style: italic;">really </span>lived until you've had to wipe your butt in the dark.Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-79261028649819025792011-09-20T15:18:00.003-06:002011-09-20T15:54:31.198-06:00Check, and MateI'm not sure if what I did today was totally horrible or totally awesome, but I'm leaning towards awesome. Here's what happened:<br /><br />I was sitting in my car in the Costco parking lot on my lunch break, parked far out in the lot away from other cars. I was playing some Words with Friends and enjoying the weather with my windows down when a middle-aged lady in a minivan pulled up next to me. She smiled and said, "Hi, I reeeeeeeeeeealllly like your car. It's soooooooooooooo nice. Soooooooooooooooo nice. I want to get me one of those. Can I ask you a favor?"<br /><br />I narrowed my eyes suspiciously, but obliged her politely. Then she launched into her not-so-well-rehearsed story:<br /><br />"I'm trying to get to Stockton California, I just broke up with my boyfriend because he hit me, he's a good guy but I just broke up with him, and I'm trying to get to Stockton California, because I have to get away from my boyfriend because he hit me, can you help me out with gas or anything at all?"<br /><br />My eyes narrowed even further into teeny little angry slits as I mentally assessed the situation:<br />1. This lady was slurring, bad;<br />2. She could barely keep her eyes open;<br />3. Her minivan looked fairly new;<br />4. The rock on her finger was HUGE;<br />5. She was speaking in one long, slurred, run-on sentence;<br />6. Did I mention she was slurring and could barely keep her eyes open?<br />7. She had no visible bruises that I could see;<br />8. There were no kids in her vehicle, but there was a car seat in the back.<br /><br />Taking all these factors into consideration, I waited until she ran out of breath and stopped talking. Then I smiled sweetly and said, "Sure, I'll help you out if you can pass this drug test..." and I held up the five-panel drug test that I'd pulled from my center console.<br /><br />Blink. Blink.<br /><br />Now, before you think I'm a heartless, stereotyping, uncharitable, hateful weirdo who always has a drug test on hand, let me explain something. I worked as a substance abuse counselor for four years and feel pretty confident that I can tell when someone is under the influence. I'm not saying I have perfect radar, but this woman was so obviously exhibiting signs of being impaired and she was so obviously trying to con me that I took the opportunity to call her bluff.<br /><br />Why did I have a drug test in my car? That's a good question...it's been in my console for so long that I don't even notice it anymore. I think it's been there for years. My best guess is that it got shuffled in with my stuff from the treatment center, and I tossed it in there with the intention of throwing it away. It's probably expired and wouldn't even have worked if the lady had decided to call <span style="font-style: italic;">my </span>bluff; in which case things would've gotten really awkward.<br /><br />But she didn't call my bluff; instead she got pissed and yelled, "Bitch!" as she burned rubber away from me. Her tires literally squealed.<br /><br />So, you might think I'm a heartless, stereotyping, uncharitable, hateful weirdo because I didn't just hand this lady a twenty and count my good deed for the day; but based on her reaction, I don't think my "stereotyping" was too far off the mark.<br /><br />Who knew that an expired drug test would be so handy?Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-28829891527284586392011-09-13T12:01:00.016-06:002011-09-15T12:43:46.172-06:00Red Rockettes vs. Happy Valley Derby DarlinsEvery once in awhile, something <span style="font-style: italic;">so </span>amazing happens that I am brought to tears. I could count on one hand the number of times I've cried in the last <strike>year</strike> <strike> month</strike> week. And one of those times was last Thursday when I had the privilege of skating with the Rockettes in our first inter-league scrimmage, against the Happy Valley Derby Darlins.<br /><br />You might remember Happy Valley from <a href="http://www.sarahisdabomb.com/2011/06/i-should-learn-to-keep-my-big-mouth.html" target="_blank">that one time I practiced with them and they scared the crap out of me.</a> Which is why I only went to one of their practices - I was afraid I'd need to invest in adult diapers if I skated with them again. Needless to say, I was terrified on Thursday. I couldn't eat, I drank like six diet sodas, my stomach was in knots and I kept throwing up in my mouth a little. By the time I got to derby, I'd worked myself up into a shaky, sweaty, throw-up-mouthy frenzy. I was relieved that a few other Rockettes were just as worked up as me, except probably without the throw-up mouth part.<br /><br />As more Happy Valley girls started showing up, more and more Happy Valley <span style="font-style: italic;">fans </span>showed up too. The bleachers were packed, people were sitting on the floor, and the majority were wearing pink and holding signs for Happy Valley. It seemed like every spectator was cheering and yelling, but not for us. I felt outnumbered and started to deflate. But then, across the track, I spotted someone holding a sign...<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhl4mTCpiTG75Y8myZXfFvixCzYo_CDlYsXHK1Fsu7vDgvPgrtkXwNnnXf5_LaRhqRb6qiRHmtsQyKPNUe3o1xEi5TIRkrdNttxzbLAH8P571M8JG2s0BZGsKYogdnj8RW4ojwGQg/s1600/301034_2419277362731_1275315460_2910227_2144977807_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhl4mTCpiTG75Y8myZXfFvixCzYo_CDlYsXHK1Fsu7vDgvPgrtkXwNnnXf5_LaRhqRb6qiRHmtsQyKPNUe3o1xEi5TIRkrdNttxzbLAH8P571M8JG2s0BZGsKYogdnj8RW4ojwGQg/s400/301034_2419277362731_1275315460_2910227_2144977807_n.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5652643430443319730" border="0" /></a>There was Heather, like a beacon of hope shining through the clouds. Heather started skating in the same group as me, and seeing her in the bleachers almost made me cry. Not just for the sign, but also for this:<br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2NPkq_MPhCupq87DDvWJJraCsR_o18HsaOWSVMgNZLGotk5De3fwTDqPdjxIRFKHNfUytl2a_jrqoL-_Gs0DRYHi-7YCDtyohcFKJn8zAHEYgcSu7rxSoIM27RNwQDJ-vbSDkKA/s1600/317864_2419282282854_1275315460_2910236_359148213_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 346px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2NPkq_MPhCupq87DDvWJJraCsR_o18HsaOWSVMgNZLGotk5De3fwTDqPdjxIRFKHNfUytl2a_jrqoL-_Gs0DRYHi-7YCDtyohcFKJn8zAHEYgcSu7rxSoIM27RNwQDJ-vbSDkKA/s400/317864_2419282282854_1275315460_2910236_359148213_n.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5652643806711064562" border="0" /></a>Aren't we a classy bunch?<br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">My joy lasted for about one more minute, when we huddled up and scoped out our competition.<br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFHsXQbkHiHLe8nqfLK2hGMV1B2w-Guc1VARstf_nnIL5xS841cBRdA-lozabciaGyBAIl7GcMKhAwqT1zWz3O0gcSHAsjkLR9y6RKoRtm88-gwvHbTrq-77KhImftoq4x-nUk8g/s1600/316944_2198721219245_1583702160_2241054_93811899_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFHsXQbkHiHLe8nqfLK2hGMV1B2w-Guc1VARstf_nnIL5xS841cBRdA-lozabciaGyBAIl7GcMKhAwqT1zWz3O0gcSHAsjkLR9y6RKoRtm88-gwvHbTrq-77KhImftoq4x-nUk8g/s400/316944_2198721219245_1583702160_2241054_93811899_n.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5652643802633532898" border="0" /></a>Some of them had painted their faces, a lot of them had massive bruises, and all of them scared me. Even their tights scared me.<br /><div style="text-align: left;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4jY4UrzPLT2OOlhQZzjUS_aW43nXE8lES9DT9Icz0x6TGngly514efHeJFYCp79-8bT4mXpPrJtl7bM4ZLn0N6mqcg3XLXhXHdzcje2_CZJbFIiJ8Vb8a6b9d5N3yastsCP2PIw/s1600/310104_2198720979239_1583702160_2241053_884479557_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4jY4UrzPLT2OOlhQZzjUS_aW43nXE8lES9DT9Icz0x6TGngly514efHeJFYCp79-8bT4mXpPrJtl7bM4ZLn0N6mqcg3XLXhXHdzcje2_CZJbFIiJ8Vb8a6b9d5N3yastsCP2PIw/s400/310104_2198720979239_1583702160_2241053_884479557_n.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5652643436521063506" border="0" /></a>Our mamas gathered us together for a pep talk. England spoke softly and kindly in her sweet British accent. We looked to her with wide-eyed, terrified faces; desperate for guidance. (Ok maybe not everyone, but definitely me) I think she may have nuzzled a few of us as she gently encouraged us and told us all how precious and lovely we were. (Ok maybe I made that last part up). Then Wanton yelled at us to sack up and stop being so scared. It was her way of figuratively slapping me across the face and shaking me, yelling, "Snap out of it!" Which is why I am both in love with and petrified of Wanton.<br /><br />I loved the Rockettes more that night than I love peanut butter, Sylvester Stallone, or Tastyklair Pies. I don't know which was more fun - actually skating, or watching my teammates skate. I cheered so much that my throat hurt, and I feel fairly certain that I did the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O9XXaU8xnV0" target="_blank">Brendan Fraser clap</a> about a hundred times. And I'm really glad no one caught that on film. But here are some of my favorite moments that did:<span style="font-style: italic;"></span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnRs6fTC_zBFaDRABS3QZdF4eex9yXta_6-lzt4brZ9sN9yKNoLRnFO40A6JDibkUkSmA3Ne8YSCG2m0jtiJkmEjL3UxxPFsvXayloctD4xVOy2IO9bwT1tTB0P6ybUnMGOSPzGQ/s1600/314544_2198742699782_1583702160_2241131_1188323044_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnRs6fTC_zBFaDRABS3QZdF4eex9yXta_6-lzt4brZ9sN9yKNoLRnFO40A6JDibkUkSmA3Ne8YSCG2m0jtiJkmEjL3UxxPFsvXayloctD4xVOy2IO9bwT1tTB0P6ybUnMGOSPzGQ/s400/314544_2198742699782_1583702160_2241131_1188323044_n.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5652643440279194162" border="0" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">I love the facial expressions that get captured in action shots. I call this one "Pushy Galore and Bloody Two Shoes Giving The Stink Eye." Pushy is the one in red, and I think it's pretty obvious which one is Bloody Two Shoes.<br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHORXxe6c5O__B-32L_8bC6pCh5TFk7PZ2tkvmxgU03caVEFXH9G5U3we2tYFhv_si_Cjt8M_Wn-PULIaKtAHL5IUN7h4bjhgcCdXQmuSe9WA1OrsoCkouNuFjzFbikWtz6sOuPw/s1600/HVDD4.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 249px; height: 330px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHORXxe6c5O__B-32L_8bC6pCh5TFk7PZ2tkvmxgU03caVEFXH9G5U3we2tYFhv_si_Cjt8M_Wn-PULIaKtAHL5IUN7h4bjhgcCdXQmuSe9WA1OrsoCkouNuFjzFbikWtz6sOuPw/s400/HVDD4.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5652644499910811234" border="0" /></a>I call this one "My Ute Felt Sympathy Pains For You When You Did the Splits", because, ouch.<br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1mSCD0nuBJYslY_pd84o65OLr88AgtXKeBG95S99D0OxY4Rnkl9On0UMWFyB6xu82uwqgOmsgtXFo6XXTaOElnmkk2TGIxQOng8T12oq0CmH_3L-AL4pdjzlW9x9VSeI9UdeptQ/s1600/314624_2198725739358_1583702160_2241071_989060638_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1mSCD0nuBJYslY_pd84o65OLr88AgtXKeBG95S99D0OxY4Rnkl9On0UMWFyB6xu82uwqgOmsgtXFo6XXTaOElnmkk2TGIxQOng8T12oq0CmH_3L-AL4pdjzlW9x9VSeI9UdeptQ/s400/314624_2198725739358_1583702160_2241071_989060638_n.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5652643784529671378" border="0" /></a>Bruiser gives Happy Valley the business.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihuzBmho_0YMYowZfPsCBp97vUvgStcTBYC4BANN-4vOgFPGea9aw0BkL35bvrHZHFlZPJjNlOE17eJLx-Q9mGPi-y2cx53M8zA5_hhKiCrcIrvqyZsyrf97IWlfAARQsF4G_94A/s1600/300084_2198736379624_1583702160_2241107_1064631902_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihuzBmho_0YMYowZfPsCBp97vUvgStcTBYC4BANN-4vOgFPGea9aw0BkL35bvrHZHFlZPJjNlOE17eJLx-Q9mGPi-y2cx53M8zA5_hhKiCrcIrvqyZsyrf97IWlfAARQsF4G_94A/s400/300084_2198736379624_1583702160_2241107_1064631902_n.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5652643429793513170" border="0" /></a>This one is called "Finally, An Action Shot of Bone Instead of a Mouth-Hanging Open Shot of Bone."<br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhNzu5jNLZ5GtwHxiEe8pfN_qjN6HEd3KN2mIDGn7Q9bgTXFALLHzPavgN1rOul-Etxwi_FMIsLbcKEfIEErbRQxAG3xn1tR6ouLS8rxyRc7eS4KAe4uWKiJ02o6KZ4XMl8u7msJQ/s1600/317749_2198726619380_1583702160_2241075_180646223_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhNzu5jNLZ5GtwHxiEe8pfN_qjN6HEd3KN2mIDGn7Q9bgTXFALLHzPavgN1rOul-Etxwi_FMIsLbcKEfIEErbRQxAG3xn1tR6ouLS8rxyRc7eS4KAe4uWKiJ02o6KZ4XMl8u7msJQ/s400/317749_2198726619380_1583702160_2241075_180646223_n.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5652643806768830690" border="0" /></a>Next time someone asks me why I'm scared of Wanton, I'm just going to show them this.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizRw9bmMGEHHQx_1wLNVp1GQyn8839Xfsxwcs01eh6EgK4xuD3phY_VKeMb8V6U18s6dvNzvC8RUYiONlOp8x1gyQ9T4TOTn-DaXC7mdspkDKfoFTVftx1-7KBby_fArcXwu5HwA/s1600/311339_2198752380024_1583702160_2241168_772231900_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizRw9bmMGEHHQx_1wLNVp1GQyn8839Xfsxwcs01eh6EgK4xuD3phY_VKeMb8V6U18s6dvNzvC8RUYiONlOp8x1gyQ9T4TOTn-DaXC7mdspkDKfoFTVftx1-7KBby_fArcXwu5HwA/s400/311339_2198752380024_1583702160_2241168_772231900_n.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5652643436575224754" border="0" /></a>Doing what I do best, which is whatever Wanton tells/pushes me to do.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh17MRXupiMnmXMVvb_PyQVxNxG9LUISlQPlMJYX7yUgoFzn4659kd05rLzJdfcI5E-eNjqd4zhTIKveuQR3_e9EV-F5QJlzOX5DCadc0U_7Z0xsBmt5nov3iKNaQ3xWFI26RWq0Q/s1600/312484_2198742059766_1583702160_2241129_991879474_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh17MRXupiMnmXMVvb_PyQVxNxG9LUISlQPlMJYX7yUgoFzn4659kd05rLzJdfcI5E-eNjqd4zhTIKveuQR3_e9EV-F5QJlzOX5DCadc0U_7Z0xsBmt5nov3iKNaQ3xWFI26RWq0Q/s400/312484_2198742059766_1583702160_2241129_991879474_n.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5652645276582581650" border="0" /></a>And here I am, playing a crucial role in helping to block for England as she jams. What's that? You can't see me being a totally effective, integral part of the blocking wall? Well let's take a closer look...<br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyVohCEExuDUHqP_Ag5K1HjDsukNvEx8c7wrlpMHeBBSOBcNQb1Mx0F4adIgwJhjnTi8H6TDAGCHL4V27DyBcJMnOj3e7rALkOrdqpoffMq-SkOrmwKPRqrPeC2jbn_P-LKFYIqA/s1600/dry+heave.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 110px; height: 371px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyVohCEExuDUHqP_Ag5K1HjDsukNvEx8c7wrlpMHeBBSOBcNQb1Mx0F4adIgwJhjnTi8H6TDAGCHL4V27DyBcJMnOj3e7rALkOrdqpoffMq-SkOrmwKPRqrPeC2jbn_P-LKFYIqA/s400/dry+heave.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5652643809916043330" border="0" /></a>Oh, maybe you can't see me because I'm bent over, looking at the ground like I'm too busy dry heaving to be bothered with blocking. Yep, that's me.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEia041kQ2dptA3mO-M0o3xuUVwbZzl_WYP9a8koBkPbOZr2haMi0dQjq7G4DD39vsnfmZAYoqBS9W0q8x6B6U8_hT89vyE6z6BAWVNsX4bQEgCsNE1DeN_OmbNMNLG6d4ujkiH00w/s1600/poo.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEia041kQ2dptA3mO-M0o3xuUVwbZzl_WYP9a8koBkPbOZr2haMi0dQjq7G4DD39vsnfmZAYoqBS9W0q8x6B6U8_hT89vyE6z6BAWVNsX4bQEgCsNE1DeN_OmbNMNLG6d4ujkiH00w/s400/poo.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5652644417064730818" border="0" /></a>How would <span style="font-style: italic;">you </span>feel if you were on the track with Wanton.<br />I'm just saying.<br /></div><br />In the end, the Rockettes won the scrimmage, and Happy Valley won the after party. We all got to mingle, and I realized that my fears were completely unfounded, because the Happy Valley girls were all<span style="font-style: italic;"> </span>really nice. I'm sure it won't be long before they're a competitive league, but at least now I can stop being afraid of their tights.Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-15030505414951219922011-08-30T11:17:00.004-06:002011-09-20T11:32:53.536-06:00I Beat the Stomach...AgainI finally did it...for the second time in my entire life, I jammed. I beat The Stomach.<br /><br />For anyone who doesn't know what being a jammer entails (like Bone Senior, who doesn't know why her trunk-less Scion doesn't have a safety-release latch on the back door. Here's a hint, sister: if you get stuck in the "trunk" of your Scion, there's no need to kick out the tail lights, <span style="font-style: italic;">just climb over the back seats</span>.) The easiest way to explain the role of the jammer is that she's the only one on the team who can score points, by passing members of the opposite team. Which means that while the blockers (me) can sometimes mosey along in a pack, the jammer is skating as fast as she can to get back around the track and through the pack as many times as possible.<br /><br />So, blocker = big butt (sometimes moseying) in your face; jammer = skate like hell, get through the pack, get back <span style="font-style: italic;">around </span>the track, get through the pack again, all while getting knocked down by blockers. Rinse and repeat for two minutes. Then apply oxygen mask.<br /><br />I think it goes without saying that I don't jam. I avoid it like the plague, which makes me feel like crap when we're short on skaters and the same three girls are jamming over and over, and they desperately look around for <span style="font-style: italic;">some</span>one, <span style="font-style: italic;">any</span>one to volunteer to jam...and I totally avoid eye contact with them, I skate <span style="font-style: italic;">away </span>from them when they're trying to hand off the jammer panty, and I flat out jump out of the way if they throw the panty anywhere near me. Then things get <span style="font-style: italic;">really </span>uncomfortable, because I stand there, trying to pretend that the panty isn't draped across my foot, or under my skate, and everyone stares at me expectantly, and I just wait until someone braver than me picks it up and has the guts to jam.<br /><br />But two months ago when I made the commitment to work harder, I set a goal to at least <span style="font-style: italic;">try </span>jamming. And in those two months, there have been countless opportunities for me to try, but I was still too scared. I told myself I was still too slow, I still don't have the stamina, my arms are still too flabby; but really, I didn't want to get out there and let everyone down. I'd made up my mind that I just wasn't cut out to be a jammer. Even though just about every skater on the team has done it, I decided that I have a wide butt for a reason, and blocking was all I would use it for.<br /><br />Because I had opened my big mouth about my high-falootin' derby goals, my teammates and coaches all knew that I wanted to jam, they all encouraged me, they were all rooting for me - but I was terrified that I'd get out there and fail. And then I'd be mortified in front of everyone, and I'd have to admit that I'm just not meant to be a jammer, and I'd have to stick my big butt back on the inside line where it belongs, defeated.<br /><br />At last week's scrimmage, I decided enough was enough, and made up my mind to jam. Really, it was all my decision. It had nothing to do with the fact that we'd lost three players to injury in the first half, and there were only three girls rotating through the jammer position - they looked like they were about to keel over from exhaustion, one of them was still recovering from a concussion, and the other had just slammed her head into the wall. I totally wasn't guilted into it. At all.<br /><br />So, I manned up and jammed.<br /><br />Up until now, I'd only jammed once. I don't really remember it (because it was so long ago) but I'm sure it was like a train wreck - a really, really slow, panting, red-faced, can't-even-catch-up-to-the-pack-let-alone-get-<span style="font-style: italic;">through-</span>the pack, dry heaving train wreck; after which I probably collapsed on the bench and hung my head in shame.<br /><br />This time, however, when I finished the jam, I felt exactly like this:<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRPQhV1DSNsJ4IvFN25ITzfwUj2Pr8lVC8S75-T0d5Dea2zNDjqcqB7kWSxCAIf11sI3M23j9fxyqwWE-gba2vUpEdGoxqncKmdntmxmXXyD6sUSCPRZHtN0HMhYcm1uDtb26fPw/s1600/rocky-iv.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 285px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRPQhV1DSNsJ4IvFN25ITzfwUj2Pr8lVC8S75-T0d5Dea2zNDjqcqB7kWSxCAIf11sI3M23j9fxyqwWE-gba2vUpEdGoxqncKmdntmxmXXyD6sUSCPRZHtN0HMhYcm1uDtb26fPw/s400/rocky-iv.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5646729462800920130" border="0" /></a>And yes, I absolutely made that face.<br /><br />It was the most exhilarating feeling of my life. Or at least the most exhilarating feeling since I did my 25 laps in under five minutes. Definitely one of the top three exhilarating moments of the last year. When the jam started and people noticed that, what the hell, <span style="font-style: italic;">Bone </span>is jamming?!? I could hear everyone screaming for me - I honestly thought Wicked and Liz were going to lose their voices. My blockers kept a slow pace, they knocked everyone out of the way for me, <span style="font-style: italic;"></span>they made it so that not only did I get <span style="font-style: italic;">through </span>the pack, but <span style="font-style: italic;">I actually scored points. </span><br /><br />When it was over, I threw my arms in the air and let my arm fat flutter in the wind as I skated back to my bench. My face hurt from smiling, my lungs were on fire, and I wanted to cry because of the overwhelming support and encouragement I got from the Rockettes. Even if they were hugging me and patting my butt out of pure pity because of my noble effort, it didn't matter. Because right then, I had conquered another one of my fears, and for two minutes? I made jamming my bitch.<br /><br />Now if only I could conquer my fear of Wanton Rebellion...Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-2064731782439419012011-08-24T01:43:00.002-06:002011-08-24T01:46:15.696-06:00Have You Been Boned This Week? Cause You're About To...I am so flattered, humbled, and honored to have been nominated for this week's Derby Girl of the Week. Thank you thank you THANK YOU so much for all the incredible support from my fellow Rockettes, it brought me to happy tears.
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<br />Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-54457065225815987512011-08-02T09:52:00.004-06:002011-08-02T10:50:45.165-06:00I Beat the Stomach<strong><em>A Summary of July:</em></strong><br /><br />Derby, endurance, sweating, more sweating, sweating so much that my entire ponytail was soaking wet (swonytail), bunionettes, ice packs tied to my feet, camping, being tricked into a hike and not realizing I'd been tricked until it was too late, eating like fifty s'mores in one night, making derby shirts, trying to figure out how to power wash the bed of a pickup truck without getting sprayed with poopy smelling water, realizing that there <em>is</em> no way to power wash the bed of a pickup truck without getting sprayed by poopy smelling water, my boobs turned three, and what else...I really feel like I'm forgetting something here....oh yeah, and I got stood up.<br /><br />Are you as shocked as I am? Because I had no idea bunionettes were a real thing either! Who knew! To clarify, bunion is on the inside of the foot, below the big toe; and a bunionette (much cuter) is on the <em>outside </em>of the foot, below the pinky toe. It might sound cuter, but trust me, my feet are a hot mess to look at. Hence the ice packs tied to my feet.<br /><br />Enough about my bunionettes - I know what you're dying to hear about. I didn't even want to post about getting stood up because I felt so humiliated at first - but now that some time has passed, I'm over being humiliated and I'm just pissed, so my blog gets to benefit from that. And as a disclaimer: I am not writing about this to gain sympathy or pity or a bunch of comments about what a douche the guy is. Even though he is. I'm writing about it because I've learned that if I can't see the humor in a situation, I usually don't learn anything from it. And now I get to pass on those pearls of wisdom.<br /><br />So this is my story about The Time I Got Stood Up. First of all, I don't think I even <em>know </em>anyone in real life who has <em>actually</em> been stood up. Because, <em>who does that? </em>Second of all, it's not like I was set up on a blind date, I went to meet him at a restaurant, I was sitting there with a red rose on the table, and he took one look at me and bailed without even saying hello. It wasn't like that at all. This was a guy I had been set up with, we spent the afternoon boating with two of our friends, then after boating he asked if we wanted to go get dinner and play cards. We all decided to go home and get cleaned up, then meet up again in about an hour at my place.<br /><br />So I go home and shower and get ready. I even blow dried my hair. Then I waited. And waited. And waited. After almost two hours of waiting, I texted the guy and told him I was ready whenever he was. No response. Another hour goes by, I texted him again, asking for an ETA. No response. After another thirty minutes, I <em>called. </em>No answer.<br /><br />He didn't even have the decency to bail on me in <em>private - </em>my friend was waiting on us, so I had to keep texting her and telling her that I still hadn't heard from him. Basically, we spent an afternoon together, <em>he </em>asked to continue hanging out, <em>he </em>put it out there, and then he just disappeared. I don't get it.<br /><br />Here's what sucks - if he didn't want to hang out with me again, he could've just called it a day after boating, and it would've been fine. But to make further plans with me and then not show up? Why even extend the invitation? Oh, and it's been over a week, and I still haven't heard a peep from him. And before you go giving him the benefit of the doubt - no, he didn't get arrested or hospitalized. Because I checked.<br /><br />As far as I'm concerned, the only acceptable excuse for standing me up is if you're dead. Believe me, I went through all the possible scenarios - maybe he fell asleep? Maybe his phone died? Maybe his car wouldn't start? If something like that happened, you'd think he'd have the courtesy to text me the next day and explain, or <em>something. </em>But no, this guy has just bailed, no explanation or apology. End of story.<br /><br />Except that might not be the end of the story, because if I ever see that guy again, I'm going to get so ghetto on him, he's going to <em>wish </em>death was his excuse for standing me up. I am <em>so </em>not above bobbing my head, raising my voice, and shaking my finger in his face. My wrath supercedes all social graces.<br /><br />So I spent a few days moping and feeling sorry for myself, feeling like I must be the biggest loser if a guy thought it was okay to treat me that way. Then it clicked in my head that <em>he's </em>the douche. And then I got angry. Like, <em>really </em>angry. Derby couldn't have come at a more perfect time, because I needed a healthy outlet for my rage, otherwise I was afraid I'd go all Bobbitt or something.<br /><br />We started out by getting timed doing 25 laps. Perfect. I kept my head down, puffed my cheeks out, and skated as hard as I could to release my angry tension. And guess what happened?<br /><br /><em>I did my 25 laps in under five minutes. </em>I came in at 4:53. <em>Fink beat The Stomach. </em><br /><em></em><br />Which means that I shaved 47 seconds off my first time, in only three and a half weeks. Three and a half weeks!!! I thought it was going to take me six months to close the gap, but I did it. <em>I did it. </em>And then I didn't even feel angry anymore.<br /><br />So maybe I should be thanking El Douche - if he hadn't stood me up, I wouldn't have gotten pissed, my anger wouldn't have simmered and built up to almost uncontrollable rage, and I wouldn't have pushed myself so hard on those laps. Maybe I wouldn't have reached my goal. Maybe I owe him gratidude.<br /><br />But instead of thanking him, I'd still rather donkey punch him.Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-72917985862516995122011-07-07T08:34:00.011-06:002011-07-11T17:21:00.429-06:00This Is Weenie WarI had an epiphany last weekend as I was trying to come up with ideas for my blog. I realized that I've spent six months trying to describe and document my roller derby experience, when all along, the entire journey can be summed up by a scene from one of my favorite movies.<br /><br /><em>Meatballs. </em><br /><br />What's that? You've never heard of the 1979 Bill Murray classic <em>Meatballs? </em>Are you <em>kidding </em>me? Next you'll tell me that you've never seen <em>The Monster Squad</em> (Wolfman's got gnards?!)<br /><br /><em>Meatballs </em>was one of those movies that my dad let me watch when I was six, I didn't get most of the jokes (mostly because I didn't know what "boner" meant), and when I saw it again it my twenties? I was horrified that my dad had even let me watch it. (In my dad's defense, <em>Meatballs </em>was rated PG, at a time when PG-13 didn't even exist yet. So while it's not quite R-rated material, I think the boner jokes alone qualify it as too mature for a six-year-old.) Other movies my dad let me watch at that age include all the <em>Rambo </em>movies<em>, Jaws, Predator, Poltergeist,</em> and <em>The Benny Hill Show. </em>And he wonders why I turned out the way I did. Just saying.<br /><br />But I digress. If you haven't seen it, all you really need to know about <em>Meatballs </em>is that Bill Murray plays Tripper, who is in charge of all the young adult counselors at summer camp. And let the hilarity ensue.<br /><br />The scene that best sums up my roller derby journey is when Fink, the stereotypical underdog fat guy, is matched against The Stomach, a hot dog eating champion from a rival summer camp. Tripper gives Fink the simple pep talk that has always stuck with me:<br /><br /><strong>Tripper:</strong> Mmmmm. Look at all those steaming wieners. Do you know what they're saying? They're saying, "This is the year that Fink beats 'The Stomach'."<br /><br />I suppose it's not really the pep talk that pushes Fink to win - it's probably more Bill Murray screaming over his shoulder and shaking him that gives him that oomph to go the extra mile. Tell me this doesn't motivate you to furiously shove hot dogs in your mouth: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DdkP6U4WjY">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DdkP6U4WjY</a><br /><br />So how does this relate to derby? Quite simply: I am Fink, roller derby is The Stomach, and the Red Rockettes are my Tripper. They're the ones yelling over my shoulder (literally and figuratively), pushing me to do more, do better, try harder, keep going. They are my personal Bill Murray, telling me that even when I feel like it's impossible, there's always more room in my mouth for weenies.<br /><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5626708772012372994" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 227px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVdop322rAl2FfOy7CR_CcncmrlFOKeXd9Dlwsq5jkasdsryJ78uKWZUckTDAr7WmPDlGycAnd8b20wVSXEYS4FrzZh7ICeRkru69ZMEw6PTqgzD5bOIc6O22XIN9_TN7L0e11eA/s400/eat-meatballs.jpg" border="0" />Because of their support, I've been able to overcome some major milestones. I've worked on overcoming my derby fears, and I've even managed to face some of those fears:<br /><br /><strong>1.</strong> <strong>Cross-overs.</strong> Here's a perfect example of a basic skill that I was <em>supposed</em> to have mastered five months ago. But I was terrified, and I just couldn't pick up my foot and lift it over the other one while skating forward. I spent every practice trying to hide behind other people so that the coaches wouldn't notice that I <em>still </em>wasn't crossing over. <em>(I know they totally noticed, I wasn't fooling anyone). </em>And finally, I just <em>tried. </em>And guess what. I didn't fall or trip myself. And while I still don't <em>look </em>comfortable or even natural crossing over, at least now I'm <em>doing </em>them.<br /><br /><strong>2.</strong> <strong>25 in 5. </strong>This is another basic skill - being able to skate 25 laps in five minutes or less. This breaks down to skating one lap in twelve seconds tops. Most of the vets can easily do it; the fresh meat mamas can probably do it in less than four minutes (that's like <em>nine seconds per lap</em>) which might not sound that fast, but trust me, it's fast. Much like I avoided cross-overs for so long, I also avoided being officially timed on my 25 laps. Basically my logic was this: I already know I'm slow, I don't feel the need to know exactly <em>how </em>slow. So every time we had an opportunity to be timed, I'd duck out early or just say I was too tired. I sucessfully avoided it for months, because ignorance is bliss. And I preferred to be ignorantly, blissfully slow instead of just plain slow.<br /><br />Then last week at the end of endurance practice, we were offered the chance to be timed. There was a small enough group there that we'd each have our own personal timer, counting our laps and tracking our time <em>for </em>us. I wouldn't even have to worry about counting or losing track of which lap I was on. So there went <em>that </em>excuse.<br /><br />It was the end of the night, we'd been working hard and I was sweaty, red-faced, and panting. My body hurt, my swass was out of control, and I just plain didn't want to do it. But then I looked over at Liz Tailher, a fellow Rockette. Liz, who does a 7:00 am bootcamp, running up huge hills and jumping over bleachers. Liz, who will chase down a jammer the way I would chase down one of the New Kids on the Block. Liz, my fellow middle-easterner who fondly refers to me as the other half of her West Bank. Liz, who was just as red-faced and sweaty as me, and she was already lined up on the track, ready to go.<br /><br />When I looked at her, I knew I was out of excuses, and I just had to do it. She gave me a fist bump and said, "Let's do this." Andy Wardoll yelled out from the sidelines, "I got YOU, Bone!" and held up her stopwatch. So I took a deep breath, lined up on the track and said to myself, "Ima make this my bitch." The whistle blew, and off we went.<br /><br />I wish I could tell you that I did my 25 laps in like three minutes, and that everyone carried me over their shoulders, cheering. But that didn't happen. What <em>did </em>happen, is that I pushed myself as hard as I could. My legs felt like they were on fire, my mouth was completely dry, and every muscle in my body hurt. But I heard Andy cheering for me every time I passed her, telling me to keep going and not to give up. Each time she called out my lap number, I focused on that and told myself, "Just fifteen more...just ten more...five more..."<br /><br />And you know what? I didn't do it in less than five minutes. But I was a lot closer than I thought I'd be and more importantly - I finally at least <em>tried. </em><br /><br /><strong>3. Wearing No-Pants with No Dark Tights. </strong>Every time I've worn no-pants, I've had either black spandex or dark tights under them, so none of my skin was actually showing. I was too self-conscious about my legs and how I could survive for a year on the cottage cheese that resides on my butt and thighs. Most of the other girls wear nude pantyhose (if anything) under their no-pants, but I just couldn't bring myself to do it. But then Bruiser Ego showed me these:<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihcb0fAovt_WzXtqqylQz2YaIDEv15lEE5WkXbcOchvgVC9Qf8khbPE7YWKoERFxEO2wtEc-B5MeuInKRGcdEtXSN7dtfjPvmAqrmjcm6Q6AfrRlJkJqhIYHfJMWwLHHFJ9PcF6g/s1600/bones.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5628236269856503522" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihcb0fAovt_WzXtqqylQz2YaIDEv15lEE5WkXbcOchvgVC9Qf8khbPE7YWKoERFxEO2wtEc-B5MeuInKRGcdEtXSN7dtfjPvmAqrmjcm6Q6AfrRlJkJqhIYHfJMWwLHHFJ9PcF6g/s400/bones.jpg" border="0" /></a>So I bought a pair. And when I put them on? Somehow I felt confident and at peace with my cellulite...and I wore them to the next scrimmage with nothing but newd hose underneath. Other than a bathing suit, it was the most leg I've ever shown in public. And it was incredibly freeing and empowering to skate like that.<br /><br />Obviously I still have a million areas that need improvement, but I feel content knowing that I'm at least <em>trying </em>to get better, and I'm starting to face the things I'm afraid of. I still have a long list of personal milestones that I want to reach (jamming, anyone?), but I hope I always have my own personal Bill Murray's cheering me on.Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-23110655289782680202011-06-14T08:38:00.004-06:002011-06-14T15:14:50.594-06:00I Should Learn to Keep My Big Mouth ShutI am regretting having ever blabbed to the entire world that I want to put more effort into derby, because now the entire world is holding me accountable. I don't have the option of just talking the talk without walking the walk, unless I'm okay with looking like an ass. And considering that I'm walking like a cripple this morning, I'm borderline being okay with looking like an ass.<br /><br />Putting in extra effort is <em>hard </em>and it has been kicking my butt. I've been pushed out of my comfort zone, into doing burpees (up/downs), planks, wall squats, and learning new vocabulary for proper derby stance that, quite frankly, makes me blush. Here's the rundown of the first week of my "extra effort".<br /><br /><strong>Monday:</strong> Skated (actually <em>skated, </em>in a <em>forward motion, </em>not just side-stepped) outside with Tasha, better known as my waxer / spray tanner, and soon-to-be Rockette. When I introduced Tasha to my fresh meat mamas, I told them that she'd seen my naked body and said, "I want to go to there"; to which I responded, "Someday, this can all be yours" as I elaborately swept my hands over my body. "You just need to join roller derby." I think that's when I did <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhiVUPjnNvNZNnIQy1yy55geEV-EzJ5HKVJdzVO-8kKUutEU_IGhNcve7kNHDEIPzXVDrYBm4Lf80wd3XQpaKpJpGldHOFySF5YbFuScJKA2TmS9GcvCSGOYwC8PDVfheRiDKZGuA/s1600/IMAG0083-1-1.jpg">the lunge-heard-round-the-world.</a> Obviously that's all it took to convince Tasha to join up. Can you blame her?<br /><br />We did laps on an outdoor track for about 45 minutes, and I felt pretty proud of myself until I saw that other derby girls are skating SEVENTEEN MILES A DAY. Seventeen. MILES. But, I did crossovers. Successfully. We also had a tender moment when I realized that Tasha has the exact same Big Five skates that I started on - finally, someone will empathize with my plight.<br /><br /><strong>Tuesday:</strong> Wasatch Roller Derby (the "real" roller derby girls) strategy / endurance practice, which I like to call, "Here's All The Reasons You Will Never Be A Good Derby Girl." We were told the practice would be on skates (some weeks are just drills on foot). About a minute after I got there, I learned that we were actually starting out on foot. Awesome. My footwear options were flip flops, skates, or work boots. So I chose barefoot, and left sweaty foot marks all over the floor. So hot. And also slippery.<br /><br />We started out doing a series of wall squats and planks, which had me sweating and panting about thirty seconds in. I had strategically placed myself between two other Rockettes, Bruiser and Liz Tailher, who have both been doing a 7 AM boot camp. Bruiser helped correct my posture and plank position, which was really helpful. Unfortunately, no matter how many times she adjusted me, I still ended up resting my sweaty face against the wall during the squats, and resting my gut on the floor during the planks.<br /><br />Then we did burpees (I know them as up/downs), which is when you do a jumping jack, then drop down into a push up, then pull your legs up, stand up and do it all over again. Which really ended up with me looking like I was doing the worm, because that's how awesome I am at doing pushups.<br /><br />This class was led by one of the founders and coaches of Wasatch, and the focus was on strategy. The way she explained different techniques made a lot of sense, and it was really helpful. I found myself saying, "Oh, <em>now</em> I understand why Wanton grabbed me by the pants to slow me down..." We even got handouts with flowcharts and graphs, all explaining different strategies. Now, if I wasn't such a negative person, I probably would've come away from the class thinking, "Wow, that was really helpful! I learned a lot!" But, I'm not, so I came away with the following pearls of wisdom that were tossed down from the coach:<br /><br /><strong>1. </strong><em><strong>"If your arms jiggle, you will never be a good derby girl."</strong> </em>As she was saying this, I was trying to discreetly tuck my arm fat into my armpits, hoping she wouldn't single me out as having jiggly arms. I also resisted the urge to ask her if having stretch marks would stop you from ever being a good derby girl, because I got the sense very early on that she wouldn't appreciate my humor.<br /><br /><strong>2. </strong><em><strong>"If you can't run a mile, you will never be a good derby girl."</strong> </em>This gave me flashbacks to highschool gym class, and me walking a 15-minute mile. That was also the only time in my life I didn't envy my sister for having big boobs, as just <em>watching </em>her run the mile made me hurt. But once I hit my mid-twenties, and hadn't run a mile in like ten years, I figured that the downside of having big boobs wasn't enough to stop me from getting them.<br /><br /><strong>3. </strong><em><strong>"If you can't skate 25 laps in less than five minutes, you will never be a good derby girl. I can do it in 3:30."</strong> </em>K, I'm not even going to touch that one - I think we all know where I stand on the speed and endurance issue <em>(read: I have neither).</em><br /><br /><p><strong>4. </strong><em><strong>"If your coach puts you on the inside line and tells you to stay there, it's because there's nothing else they can do with you."</strong> </em>When we heard this little gem, all of the Rockettes in attendance burst out laughing. I can't count how many times my fresh meat mamas have said to me, "Just stick to the inside line and don't worry about anything else." Any idealistic notions I had about being put on the line because I'm a good blocker went right out the window. I wanted to gather up my arm fat and just leave. But since I had flapped my gums about wanting to get better, I couldn't tuck tail and run in front of the other Rockettes. I'm pretty sure they would have physically stopped me from leaving, and I love them for that. </p><br /><p>In defense of the Wasatch coach, I can completely appreciate where she's coming from. She's leading a team of intense girls who are out for blood, and practice is very, very serious for them. She's all about the brutal honesty, and while I understand that? I was yearning for the coddling, gentle love of my fresh meat mamas. </p><br /><p><strong>Thursday: </strong>Red Rockettes practice. I was so glad to be back with a familiar group of faces. Practicing with Wasatch gave me a whole new appreciation for the Rockettes, and the environment that our coaches have created for us to learn <em>and </em>have fun. We have such a large group now that practice is split up: 7-9 is for the rookies, 8-10 is for the vets. I think the highlight of my night was at about 9pm, when I was already sweating and dying, and one of the rookies (who had been skating for two hours and was barely glistening) said, "Didn't you <em>just </em>get here?" Yes, yes I did, which makes it that much more sad. </p><br /><p><strong>Friday-Sunday: </strong>Pretty much one continuous cycle of eating, sleeping, and watching <em>Bridezillas. </em>Whatever, don't judge me.</p><br /><p><strong>Monday: </strong>Happy Valley Derby Darlins practice. This is a group that was formed in December, and is currently recruiting skaters. They skate just a few minutes from where I live, and had extended an invitation to the Rockettes to come practice with them anytime. So E-Rolla Virus drove down from Salt Lake, and she and I entered the lions den together.</p><br /><p>HVDD has about 25 girls, and they all looked like they could beat me up. E-Rolla and I just looked at eachother like, "What have we gotten into?" but we geared up and joined in the stretching. Their coach, Breaker 1-9, immediately sensed outsiders amongst her crew, and called out for us to state our names and business there. When we said we come in peace, and from the Red Rockettes, they all started...<em>cheering. </em>They let out a chorus of, "Yay! You're here to help us!"</p><br /><p>Blink. Blink. E-Rolla and I exchanged glances that said, "We have absolutely nothing to teach you, seeing as how we are still trying to learn how to skate", but they all looked so...hopeful. They had no idea they where about to be underwhelmed by the Alamo of the Red Rockettes. So instead of just coming out with the truth about how novice we are, E-Rolla and I rode the celebrity status wave for the next thirty seconds, aaaaaaaaaaand then we started skating. </p><br /><p>It became very clear, very quickly, that these girls have been focusing on speed and endurance for the past six months. They were fast, stable, and had perfect derby stance. They almost never broke form, and if they did, they heard it loud and clear from Breaker 1-9, no pun intended. She was loud, and she was very, <em>very </em>clear with her instructions. The last time someone screamed, "MOVE YOUR ASS!" at me was in highschool, when my tennis coach would make my two-syllable first name into a one-syllable word, indiscernible to the untrained ear. "Moo ya fee, Sah! MOO ya FEE!" (<em>Translation: Move your feet, Sarah! MOVE your FEET!)</em></p><br /><p>Along with "loud" and "clear", Breaker had a very distinct way with words. This is the part where I learned new vocabulary for "proper derby stance". We've been taught tits over knees over toes, hands in the vag. Simple as that. That phrase has been drilled into my head, and it's almost become second nature. And really, "tits over knees over toes" is as descriptive as you need to get with me when it comes to proper derby stance - I get it, I understand it, I need no further explanation.</p><br /><p>Breaker 1-9 has a different opinion when it comes to explaining proper derby stance, and honestly, I don't know if I can even bring myself to write it here, because it's straight-up prison talk, and the thought of my sister reading it makes me feel embarrassed. And although I have the sense of humor of a thirteen-year-old boy, even <em>I </em>draw the line somewhere. </p><br /><p>We were doing a pace line, skating a figure-eight pattern. It teaches you how to skate close to eachother, and to keep pace with the girl in front of you while not breaking away from the girl behind you. We were also practicing sticky skates, which is skating in a forward motion without picking up any of your wheels. It <em>kills</em> my thighs. Breaker kept yelling at us to get as close as possible to the girl in front of us, as low as we could with our asses out. Really, that statement from her would have been enough. "Get your ass down and out", or "Get all up ons", or even "Get your face close enough to kiss the butt of the girl in front of you" are all very self-explanatory, but Breaker took it to the next level.</p><br /><p>I really can't bring myself to write what she actually said. I've tried several times, and I'm just too modest. <em>(Whoda thunk? Me? Modest? Pfffft. But seriously, this is just too far for me to take it. At least on my blog. In person, I have no problem saying it, but for some reason, seeing it in writing is too much.)</em> Suffice it to say that it started with 'E' and ended with 'ATHERASSHOLE.'</p><br /><p>In other<em> </em>words, it sounded a lot like, "Meat her class mole."</p><br /><p>If you were playing Mad Gab, your clue would be, "Eater as hoe." </p><br /><p><em>That's </em>how close she wanted us to the girl in front of us. My response was to turn around to E-Rolla, who was directly behind me, and say, "Toss my salad."</p><br /><p>While it was a great workout, I'm not sure if I'll be going back to the HVDD practice. I get my fill of prison lingo from <em>Lockup,</em> thankyouverymuch.</p>Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-66606965727543176812011-06-06T21:01:00.006-06:002011-06-07T10:37:47.259-06:00Lessons LearnedI drove home from last Thursday's scrimmage in tears. As if I didn't look enough like a crazy person, I was also shaking my head and talking to myself. I'm sure the other commuters got a good laugh out of it. But let me back up.<br /><br />I skate with an amazing group of girls who are all getting better and better and better each week. I watch them lap me during warm ups, juke me on the track, and generally leave me in the dust during a jam. On a normal night, I'm slow. Last week? I felt like I had peanut butter flowing through my veins; which, normally I would say is a delicious feeling. But I haven't eaten any peanut butter in six months <em>(I have a bit of a ... problem with peanut butter. As in, if there is any peanut butter in the house, I will eat the entire jar with a spoon in one sitting. I wish I was kidding.)</em> I didn't even get to enjoy the peanut butter euphoria while my butt was dragging around the track; I just got the after effects of sweating, panting, and a stitch in my side.<br /><br />I started every jam at the beginning of the pack, and ended every jam halfway around the track, behind everyone else, just trying to catch up. I was always the straggler. And it's not like I went unnoticed either; did you know that there's a ref assigned to keep an eye on the stragglers? Neither did I, until I heard the head ref yelling to another ref, "Keep an eye on the stragglers!" Meaning that I had my own personal ref skating alongside me the entire time I was gasping to catch up to the group. Nothing like a little public flogging to really give you confidence.<br /><br />I felt like every time I was out there, I was holding my team back. And of course everyone was so nice about it, which made me feel even worse for dragging them down. England suggested that I stick to the inside of the track so that I have less distance to cover. Pushy asked what the team could do to help me out there, and all I could think was, "Slow down!" And Wanton took a more practical approach by grabbing my waistband and pulling or pushing me so that I'd stay with the pack.<br /><br />So I spent the whole drive home being angry with myself and trying to figure out what the heck my problem was that night. I <em>felt </em>like I was trying hard, but no matter how hard I pushed, skated, and puffed out my cheeks, I just wasn't getting anywhere. My first reaction was to blame my skates.<br /><br />For the past six months, I have been skating on top-of-the-line, highest quality Big Five skates. The hard plastic toe stops have been implemental at teaching me how to stop <em>without</em> using my toe stops, because instead of stopping me, they just squeak across the floor. The hard plastic wheels really help me keep my balance and grip the track as I'm <em>not</em> doing crossovers. They give me a good, solid stance. I highly recommend Big Five skates to anyone who wants to work twice as hard and get half as far.<br /><br />I've been putting off buying new skates because a) I'm cheap, b) skates get expensive, and c) did I mention I'm cheap? Then Sugarplum Scary made me an offer I couldn't refuse: she had bought a new pair of skates because her original ones didn't fit right, so she was looking to sell them. And they just happened to be my size. I skated around a few times and was in awe of the actual rubber toe stops and grippy wheels. The toe stops actually stopped me! My wheels didn't slide when I pushed off! In my state of wonder, I realized that I had no idea how to skate on <em>good </em>skates.<br /><br />I also realized that it maybe wasn't the best idea to break in new skates on a scrimmage night. Because although I finally had the right equipment, learning to use it was a different story. I felt like I was starting from square one.<br /><br />For a few minutes, I convinced myself that surely <em>I</em> wasn't the problem; it was the skates! Yes, that's it! The skates! How could I be expected to keep up when I was trying to get used to new skates? It had only taken me six months to learn how to skate on Big Five's, which buys me at <em>least </em>another three months before anyone expects me to be useful on the track, right? Yes, that must be it.<br /><br />Then some nagging thoughts started creeping in. I thought about all the new girls and how amazing they're doing. I thought about girls who had started the course six weeks late and were lapping me, and girls who can only make it every few weeks and <em>they're </em>lapping me. Everyone seems to be getting better every week. Bascially, everyone laps me and I knew in that moment that it wasn't because of my skates. And that kinda sucked.<br /><br />I finally admitted to myself that I haven't done <em>anything</em> to help myself improve outside of Thursday nights. Most of the other girls skate at least three or four times a week, they go to an endurance skate class on Tuesday nights, they go disco skating, they do a boot camp at SEVEN IN THE MORNING! These girls are hardcore and serious about getting better, and what have I been doing? Drinking diet pepsi and watching <em>Mob Wives</em>, that's what. If I hadn't gone off peanut butter, I guarantee I'd be sitting around eating that too.<br /><br />Getting better at skating isn't something that's just going to <em>happen</em> to me, no matter how bad I wish it would. I have to be willing to put in the time and effort to <em>get </em>better, otherwise I'm just going to stay in the same place while everyone else continues to lap me. I don't want that, I don't want to hold my teammmates back, and I'm pretty sure the straggler ref is sick of skating alongside me.<br /><br />So I made a few decisions. I'm going to start attending the Tuesday night endurance class, which I'm already dreading. The thought of doing squats and sprints and running makes me want to puke. But everyone who goes has said it makes a huge difference in their skating, so I have to give it a shot.<br /><br />I'm also going to make an effort to use my new skates more than once a week, and I'm already off to a good start with that one - last night, I skated around a park trail with my friend/waxer/tanner Tasha, who's going to join next session. And guess what else - <em>I actually did crossovers. </em>Seriously. I know. <em>I know! </em><br /><br />I could come up with a million excuses not to do these things - gas is expensive, the drive sucks, I'm tired, I'm lazy, <em>The Real Housewives of New Jersey </em>is on, blah blah blah. But I can't keep making excuses for sucking at skating - it's either put in the time to improve, or quit because I'm just getting in everyone's way. And like E-Rolla Virus said, derby is cheaper than therapy, so there's no way in hell I'm quitting.<br /><br />You heard it here first - Bone is getting her butt in gear.Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-50338119248507815472011-06-01T10:43:00.012-06:002011-06-02T11:30:31.175-06:00San Antonio: I Didn't Really Get It<div align="center">It's June, and there is still snow on the mountains here. I'm so over the Utah winter, so for Memorial Day weekend my roommate Tiff and I decided to take a trip somewhere hot and sunny. We ended up going somewhere sweltering, sticky, and confusing to me: San Antonio.<br /><br />Neither of us had ever been there, and we were excited to see the Alamo, the Riverwalk, and of course, the sun. I know I run the risk of pissing off a lot of Texans by saying this, but I was really looking forward to gaining a better understanding of why the Alamo was such a big deal - I totally didn't get it, because the Mexicans won, but the Alamo is "a symbol of Texas liberty". More on that to come.<br /><br />Let's start with the things that <em>didn't </em>confuse me.</div><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613627499572730274" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 271px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh__-HkIDX99ZH2bOKaH9KvrCrqB44qOSttUxWNoeihbs6mBEHRdyiaRsFtjeUI3tG4SKSuOpPZ8PCPRsQPc1OKlKhfcvD6PlwPA_YNWVO1FooKQNzxINGCEtD80YhGp6IZiABCtg/s400/river+walk.jpg" border="0" /> <p align="center">The Riverwalk<br /><br /><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613294816826436706" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 284px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBPYdEKQYQP0hqh5i5Mx4BWBbGrS-Lf2G_jTb0sHNribQsZ2sesMLN6ukiOCFe7FACJPm0V5Mv4YwlwUkx4n_Ksv3I3TEikZxhZkef5zxM6mXhTandvSSormP5VhdIIfbjrrKheQ/s400/san+fernando+cathedral.jpg" border="0" />The San Fernando Cathedral<br /><br /><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613294377484145858" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEick9tkoxo4nldlPc1uwshmWcwvDB8jbt8n3vaS-voMfGwasl6v7e33X3TojVbgllkvL9Ftw64I5ukttvz9N3bWv3kP6qFMM28Y8YIvKxgje7BVmowXXBs2fj94_9D3RjYh1D5L2Q/s400/San+Antonio+029.jpg" border="0" />Sombreros<br /><p align="center"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613627504616501186" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWXsq4_TmfIOEn8J3GFRQFpY_9OEvrEJNqF9m9n3wrQb-nQFKbR-tvsiR715zz5VWIzeo-0QGGXjJiuxCdi6vClp5jtarn7-KiiDHmQxxjZ6kQRsiPYVh05aXClUQ-a7f54SgA2Q/s400/sarah+cowboy+pinup.jpg" border="0" />Optical illusions<br /><br /><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613293336182000098" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 267px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEidpywym76JPStRd_Xn6K1N6-HcO5Etl9m6LTmvlbiPFFUBmuF00G_C_QYKjBa1zxFBhJlkgCWe1RhS87xChNMpfVgrmX4ggfFj-RQyNYRCRfxlyliQBOyCOeSEeUCD3ZrIUptQDQ/s400/sarah+mexican.jpg" border="0" />Another optical illusion.<br /><br /><p align="left">Beyond that, San Antonio kinda lost me. I spent most of my time there with a puzzled look on my face, asking, "Huh?". Actually, I spent <em>most </em>of my time sweating, chafing, and trying to breathe with my mouth closed so Tiff wouldn't realize how out of shape I was. I'm pretty sure I walked more last weekend than I have in the last five years combined.<br /></p><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613293353408815074" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifYmbhR27MkisBnZblASfwND8SCZCPrG1ruraVHfysJ1-xck8-fuHoRvCmvgREQE7Cizxp6h7Gq9YhCYtxpOQ6IIXm1WImY8Qn79C33fwMEs3GPqdMyjwoBrB1lQAipdqD5ubGZw/s400/San+Antonio+016.jpg" border="0" /><p align="center">These tourism posters were all over the place.<br /><br /><p align="center"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613293358621979570" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjxoGguSgUQe5tR3fEnSJ6xVo3qg7zWWsHGUuJnJHzIGU7KcPnaf1wK9zesUwfPKFvHCjSB-eKIfq0P4ZMWdmnQFd-yxqnpLAOmGcqPrD7pJlcEZ5ycJ8BdJhSoOR1lPm_a5dv56w/s400/San+Antonio+017.jpg" border="0" />Hello, my name is "I don't really get your slogan."<br /><br /><p align="center"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613293364021459218" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_GQdXzL28YXOTFPH1AlktS7O6VXeyRizoWb0i5Hb7CtnGc9I8TtLPGRELWM3ECsIqT1p5pgO_nKJ3oksXTbncNXZvZnGv7huJ1kCnHUxguwnrZNRL-l7D5dN54M96d9VMUG4Zfw/s400/San+Antonio+018.jpg" border="0" />Who <em>wouldn't </em>want a free sniffing of Bone swass after a day of sweaty thigh chafing?<br /><br /><p align="center"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613627503620667554" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiTmhf-Va2zppbxqPWXcmVXMuR16uCmfHRMdB8U6grpJrM1jiec77DozpOKQ5Ol0xzJRA1oiX9NwoFyJUF2IfsHK5o2WSemfr7TYIoP5ioTEqv9chkqCoIblUx9oN4bZOLv7hXpBg/s400/San+Antonio+015.jpg" border="0" /><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613293346049909826" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjGyhXeswogvHqKIQ5oQMTGHrGd54paBODWUjBm_kFCm8jBBbKJ05ZrJ-XkwSyRwgslB_t6hJNZGrlcUsXH7-BqzVjkIv7AgmVqr0c6yf0NyiO51SZxn-0TFYi6W1ya-FAWp5Zig/s400/San+Antonio+010.jpg" border="0" />These cryptic messages confused me. At first, I thought the Mexicans were just really bad at writing a haiku, but they still didn't make sense. Tiff was smart enough to figure it out: it's all about the river. I never would've gotten that on my own.<br /><br /><p align="center"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613294806558027650" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 294px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgaiVfGF8zavC9ib_5aWGdiDiZfVdDLCHWXGDavfHIa7RD5vX-DYq1hwQ2UMoH7NBixxwZ635NYIonUU57lsunPCvUgcrnlI1oZwWFKHfzxD__YbcMJCPs-Aa77uBH3058M0-uiAg/s400/sarah+tiff+jr.jpg" border="0" />Alamo City Ghost Tours. We had a couple different tours to choose from, so we went with the group that had the most confusing website. <a href="http://www.alamocityghosttours.com/">http://www.alamocityghosttours.com/</a>. We knew we were in for a real adventure when we read one of the testimonials: "I feel as if I have been transported into the 1980's movie <em>Ghostbusters." </em>Plus they promised that everyone gets ghost hunting equipment! I was fully expecting a proton pack, and fully planned on shouting, "Don't cross the streams!" at least a dozen times. However, the equipment we got was not quite Ghostbuster-caliber.<br /><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613294804298677010" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzoE_p3CJVWnY_vG6ia1XhyphenhyphenRmV-ZEyxjFZcpHu_ylFBZzUk-RR-ZTu4Dg3MwrBeYcWNnPYwCQ-IGP47BjlNSsV9lLC_YND4hJLf3Xv5V8NaSXUi7GOrL8yeDYp43M8bTbxb5MsJg/s400/sarah+tiff+ghost+hunt.jpg" border="0" />Tiff demonstrating how to use the "ghost hunting equipment": point, shoot, get temperature. Her laser temperature gauge confirms it: my butt is hot.<br /><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613294380212147138" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdx9CTAIkFf6_sdmA4g2trxA3W3kUsNMlEGOQZvGtCutdhWXl6k-IXDMBoGfkAuXx89MIqzNhLzlXC7iym6itK6YAc04sfjgjcMUxX_eDUwYWEbw9QKxtdl4HrP45xHGvxtCtGig/s400/San+Antonio+036.jpg" border="0" />The scariest thing I saw on the ghost tour: a dead bird. Even scarier was when a competely oblivious lady <em>stepped</em> on the dead bird and I heard it crack. It creeped me out worse than anything else on the tour.<br /><p align="center">Which brings me back to the Alamo.<img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613292962235282882" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 267px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgW78p2c8p0cBBncGC3GeMfeC6Oxsd6NyDup5sb6wZ3C82uXhyphenhyphena_3DDMtxxl6k0ZcA-hPj6Rr-l4I5onEaIuCV0drD7FYsy6gh_plfHRnNK9tBWk0tSIGcq5rj9F1Xm_NK5Bc7mFg/s400/alamo.jpg" border="0" />I was excited to go inside and find out what all the hoopla was about. I thought there would be people dressed as Davy Crockett, whooping it up and firing pistoleros into the air; and I was hoping that one of them would be able to explain why this place was such an integral part of Texas freedom if the Mexicans won...<br /><br /><p align="center"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613294388028273442" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRzvbuGA1wYWIC-KO3ORHTQ-OBsXfZ9_qdlkpK5OFePuJJxZdzrUfsi4BL8xjmeMIKVOIWaNJRB2AYvspF1Dk8hCgvbzdBHKecsPJ4y-nEBWmtrRjCE9pAnL4oSl6HgGcUUM5P4w/s400/sarah+ranger+alamo.jpg" border="0" />My hopes of seeing Davy Crockett were quickly dashed as soon as we went inside. It was made clear that there are no shenanigans or tom foolery at the Alamo. The Alamo is very serious, as you can see. Which gave me that much more reason to be <em>pro</em>-tom foolery and anti-seriousness. I still don't fully understand why it was such a critical point in the war, but here's what I <em>did </em>learn:<img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613294370520380642" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjexVLdv7H7JADMTj9NO0JC6IJFLMwe-1KG8HCQOzMC_n6thpkwzNhBxdize1iZmpHzgJpuCv5DrEFSoay7RX1xlJ0dkoMAIkDJDLd_494e-g1AWYXkLN8TbDXzgQ9zgZkKw49-FQ/s400/San+Antonio+021.jpg" border="0" />The walls are only like eight feet tall. Which confused me even more! Why did it take 2,000 Mexican soldiers almost two weeks to get over these walls and take the Alamo? I'm neither Mexican nor a soldier, but I'm pretty sure I could clear this wall pretty quickly. I didn't say I could do it <em>gracefully; </em>there would be a fair amount of huffing and puffing involved, but still.<br /><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613294385365750802" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 267px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBcETxEwUURthkLvzIfuKwrhakxVwptQCj-DpVF84Yv2-Y3r2TyFPKLOlyjRNjQLqDcJ_r6e2j8K3sXz4cHnWgdPA8nvgJOYpAdiyLlpF6Kp27VaIDJnEhTQEKpPVjMubVVxUypg/s400/sarah+damien+alamo+grass.jpg" border="0" />There are many rules at the Alamo. Like no stepping on the grass. <img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613292965162444802" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCboIrbgBr_7_fFCsidmfaJkgPKXRbbwPRUd7erfV0wRY1DB_RhsFXSjpAWEl047llgkdDYhmfvb52gAMmi2IlRYZLPL8yQaK7mS6TCHnTO9D139dxlv2L28NFFiSv_B3x8gevQg/s400/alamo+walls.jpg" border="0" />And no touching the walls. <img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613292970558610770" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg7BLtGWOxN34REBYRKnjou3HaAuA79OQcCPRo8OzxL52ctN85L1ivViLzXCD6HesviVaXgsSyVI5Ay6XmiqC3RyjQXSI7jgszv81ZCXk4m7QTMBKuUxqDEgidTp5eCyzbnQY-JBQ/s400/alamo+walls+2.jpg" border="0" />And no photography inside.<br /><br /><p align="center"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613292975383721010" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUxMKeRIm8U8wAG3uC8aBEgLhpxI4y4ROO9CLY42mD-MwaVAjfwHAcO9u2A8irritk9ZpLHwuSsJOrROCP645lEJBfTbrpBQKw4-nqAbk6aBHxhOAGNNF1yPAN3GlEcdyXkt0ffg/s400/alamo+walls+3.jpg" border="0" />And especially no photography inside <em>whilst</em> touching the walls.<br /><br /><p align="center"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613295174229904738" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 267px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgoevI45jFFrdtklkNNaAznX0JXaM80n9e403Pcgvb8hFCYVu4kUcZV0ZI1hLg2rDdC5XcDlNtcmuqYPqFaBhJU-aSzWaSuDAMf4gBGZBs0JLkMsMIqWtlOU8n83yCy1kqhun6-iA/s400/sarah+starburns.jpg" border="0" />Surprisingly, there were no rules about where you were allowed to sit during the tour guide's presentation. I think people thought I was part of the presentation and kept waiting for me to get up and do something, but I just sat there, politely listening and making the guide feel weird.<br /><br /><p align="center">At the end of the weekend, I came home with a sunburn and a whole new appreciation for dry heat. Try as they may have, the Tejanos just couldn't instill any culture in me; but at least I blended in with the natives.Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-75763329649391013372011-05-10T01:12:00.007-06:002011-05-10T06:11:35.997-06:00That Mushy Gushy Stuff in Honor of MothersTwo weeks ago, I got into a killer cat fight, a la<span style="font-style: italic;"> Mob Wives</span> (an ambulance was sure to come), and I tweaked my neck. Ok I didn't really get into a cat fight, but it sounds a lot cooler than saying that I was blow drying my hair, flipped my head up and my neck seized. So let's just stick with the cat fight.<br /><br />I tweaked it so badly that I missed a night of derby; I spent most of the weekend turning my entire torso just to look to the side, at which point I decided that the best plan of action was to just stay in bed, watching a lot of brainless television, and I had a lot to think about.<br /><br />And seeing as how I'm <span style="font-style: italic;">still </span>laid up in bed (until my first ever chiropractor visit tomorrow, which I swear is giving me panic attacks about having my neck accidentally snapped in half) I've been thinking about a lot. A lot about mothers, friendships, roller derby, kids, Arby's mozzarella sticks...just to name a few.<br /><br />I've been thinking about the past year of my life, where I was then and where I am now. Who I've tried to become and the things that I've tried to change about myself. A year ago, I felt like a shell of my former self. I had no idea who I was or how I'd let myself get so...empty. I was lonely, I cried to my sister every day, I had no direction, felt like I had no purpose. I was miserable.<br /><br />When Gina suggested trying roller derby, I had a piss-poor attitude about it. The first few weeks, I couldn't do anything right, I really only talked to Gina, I hid from the coaches, hoping that they wouldn't notice that I wasn't doing anything right, I made stupid jokes to the other girls, hoping <span style="font-style: italic;">they</span> wouldn't notice that I wasn't doing anything right, and I pretty much kept to myself. My equipment was from D.I., my skates were from Big Five, I didn't have the cute derby clothes or tights. I felt totally ghetto, totally out of my element, and totally lame. I felt like I just didn't fit in.<br /><br />I cried to my sister every Friday morning about how horrible I'd done at derby the night before. About how I felt like I was failing at life because I was failing at skating. How nobody there liked me and I got picked last for kickball, and how I just wanted to quit. I'm not kidding, I think I <span style="font-style: italic;">actually </span>whined, "aaaaaaaaand I got picked last for KICK ball!" That's how emotionally mature I am. But every Friday morning, my sister reassured me that derby was not the barometer of my life as a whole, and that I just had to stick it out for the twelve weeks, and then I never had to skate again if I didn't want to. She made me promise to finish the session.<br /><br />But somewhere along the line, something clicked with me. I think it was the night that Daisy grabbed me by the hand and forced me to do a baseball slide with her. I totally sucked at it, but she smiled and applauded me, and told me how awesome I was. She was totally lying, but somehow, it made me finally smile, get up, and keep skating. And then I actually started loving going to derby.<br /><br />I started to branch out and tried talking to other girls. Talking led to laughing, and going out together after derby, and getting phone numbers, and texting, and talking on the phone. It led to late night conversations, coordinated no pants nights, emails that went back and forth for days - most so funny that I peed a little. It started treat nights, crafting parties, big plans for pajama parties, and skate maintenance parties. It led to friendships and a feeling of sisterhood, and sometimes for me, a feeling of motherhood, which was the last thing I expected, and didn't realize how badly I needed.<br /><br />I lost my mom to cancer when I was ten, and I've been trying to fill that void ever since. There are countless amazing women in my life who have all played a part in being a mother to me, even to this day. My closest friends all play a part in filling that role in my life, whether they realize it or not. I don't think any of the Rockettes even know about my mom, but I hope I can tell them here how much they've helped to fill that void for me.<br /><br />These are girls who have taken me under their wing and make the extra effort so that I feel welcome, even if my equipment is ghetto. They make me feel loved, even if my derby clothes aren't cute and my skates are from Big Five. They encourage me to always try harder, break out of my comfort zone, put on my no pants, and own it. They helped me gain back my identity, and be proud of it. Isn't that what a friend does? Isn't that what a mother does?<br /><br />Many of the Rockettes are mothers, and I am astonished at how they manage to juggle everything in their lives. I only have to worry about me, and sometimes I barely make it out the door in one piece. These ladies take care of little children, husbands, families, jobs, and they make it look so easy. Not only do they make it look easy, but they love every minute of it. And that kind of love has transferred to the derby track, and made me feel like I'm part of something so much bigger than a recreational derby league. I feel like I have 30 mothers and sisters who all genuinely care about each other. Just last week, everyone pitched in to put together a gift basket for the daughter of a vet who is dealing with medical issues. The Rockettes were so generous with their donations, there was enough money to fill the basket with goodies and get a $50 gift certificate. The outpouring of love was overwhelming.<br /><br />They genuinely care about <span style="font-style: italic;">me. </span>The night I missed practice, I couldn't even count the number of emails, texts, and messages from derby girls, asking if I was ok, telling me that I was missed. One coach told me that they'd officially decided that I was never allowed to be absent from practice again, because they missed me so much. If that doesn't warm your heart, then you're probably dead inside.<br /><br />I love each and every one of the Rockettes because they all bring something different to the table, and they've all had an influence on me. When I go to practice, I'm not the girl with cellulite and a flat bum. I'm not the girl with the love handles and back fat that jiggles. I'm not the single girl with no kids. I'm not the girl who says "wooder" instead of "water", or who gets sweaty just standing in place. I'm not "that girl who's mom died." I'm not my insecurities, my negativity, or my fear of failing. At derby, I am not defined by any of the things that I allow to hold me back in real life. I am none of those things.<br /><br />At derby, I'm Bone Junior, and I kick ass, and I owe it to the Rockettes. And of course to my sister for talking me down every Friday morning, just like our mom would've done. Her telling me that I got picked last for kickball because both teams just wanted me so badly, that they had to fight over me, and it took them a long time to decide. Her encouraging me to make new friends and try something new, and to stick with it. That's totally what a mother does.Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28243669.post-79455537719912343472011-04-26T10:54:00.007-06:002011-04-26T13:48:28.159-06:00Tanning Fail, but Still Win Because I Am Tan **UPDATED**I've said it before, and I'll say it again when my skin looks like a leather handbag: I am tanorexic. I love to be tan, whether it's from the actual sun or a tanning bed, it makes no difference. I just hate to be pasty. Lecture me all you want about wrinkles and UV rays, but mark my words, I will go to my grave the color of terra cotta.<br /><br />Before you start wagging your finger at me about how unhealthy I am, the whole point of this post is that I tried something new and NOT unhealthy to get tan: SPRAY TAN. Not the kind you buy at Walmart, but an <em>actual</em> spray tan from an <em>actual</em> salon. And before you start rolling your eyes, I did not turn out the color of Snookie. I have a lovely glow, if I do say so myself. And while I'm thrilled with the results, the <em>process</em>, persay, was not exactly what I expected.<br /><br />I had never tried a spray tan before, and I was a little leary, having seen terrifying spray tans on <em>Toddlers and Tiaras. </em>And also on <em>Jersey Shore, Jerseylicious, Mob Wives, </em>and pretty much any show about people in New Jersey. But based on these shows, I had an idea in my head of what the experience of spray tanning would be like: I go into a private room, lock the door, put on a shower cap, step into a booth, <em>alone</em>, and get hosed down with tanner like I'm going through a car wash. Or, I go into a private room, put on a shower cap and some kind of cover-up for my lady parts, and a gal comes in and sprays only my essential parts with tanner. In my head, those were the only two possible outcomes.<br /><br />I did not know that my salon utilizes a third option. The kind where I go into a private room, put on ONLY a shower cap, awkwardly stand there and try to figure out how to cover my lady parts, waiting for a gal who comes in and gets all up in ALL my parts, hosing me down with tanner, while I'm still trying to figure out how to keep my no-no square covered.<br /><br />I was informed of option three when I got to the salon, and it was too late to back out. But as fate would have it, the gal who does the spray tans is the same gal who does the waxing. The same girl who used to do <em>my </em>waxing. She's the only person in this world who's seen the scary places of my body that should never be seen by the naked eye (<em>read: my bum crack)</em>. Not only has she seen those places, but she's waxed them. So, I suppose that if I had to stand naked in front of anyone, awkwardly for several minutes, then she'd be the person I'd choose, because she's already seen it all.<br /><br />You'd think that I would've been perfectly comfortable in the newd in front of her, but, I was not. I was not "prepared" to be seen naked. As in, I hadn't even shaved my <em>legs</em> for like a month. I'd come straight from work, so I felt all greasy and swassy, I'd started to sweat as soon as I heard the words "totally naked", and I was a bumbling mess. She told me she'd give me three minutes to undress and then she'd be back.<br /><br />It took all of about twenty seconds for me to undress and put on the shower cap. Please to enjoy a self-illustrated pictorial on how I spent the remaining two minutes and forty seconds waiting for her to come back in: <em>(Illustrator's note: I added censorship bars where I thought necessary. Pretty much just for the sake of my brother. Thank you.)(Also, I am aware that I drew my hands and feet anatomically incorrect. Everything else is perfectly to scale.)</em><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhsH1pyQwZZB-TyqFkLG4DxeB2Q8MYWLtSUWe8OaLHEcddkwUvpww8oKky0MIZQvw8qHY64l07Q2ou0Zs0I2HSg-G1JMOWG9zdZSr4zl4vIG-3XVLgTyqAwlydwZGPzX3dpr0RW2w/s1600/IMAG0085-1.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5599938236747512594" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 280px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhsH1pyQwZZB-TyqFkLG4DxeB2Q8MYWLtSUWe8OaLHEcddkwUvpww8oKky0MIZQvw8qHY64l07Q2ou0Zs0I2HSg-G1JMOWG9zdZSr4zl4vIG-3XVLgTyqAwlydwZGPzX3dpr0RW2w/s400/IMAG0085-1.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEir3MZGl6qZJx_CaBVSiEpzyTFZKGpT5xX0XSVw-mNBMmmOLYrgf5lRdulYfv_kt_VEAmwaKijKqz0d2Fkjlgfb-6rKdTrkU8aLoyHf3thUIAHmeBh0w7b-Lj1Hg7oOqAjNavsHog/s1600/IMAG0084-1.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5599938108447985458" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 324px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEir3MZGl6qZJx_CaBVSiEpzyTFZKGpT5xX0XSVw-mNBMmmOLYrgf5lRdulYfv_kt_VEAmwaKijKqz0d2Fkjlgfb-6rKdTrkU8aLoyHf3thUIAHmeBh0w7b-Lj1Hg7oOqAjNavsHog/s400/IMAG0084-1.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgI8LLAF8Cy-BOwTUAHeyGa-Ke7iIbHVcOPKBdJ1nsMehQdHC7hcLXGbSeFridogmOI8WjGb2A9NKMmTAUihdfK02PL2nswn0EeE9gGwstAHsbEW3oGMhcPuCJtrcCRvtpc36GaWA/s1600/IMAG0088-1.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5599938106321067186" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 316px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgI8LLAF8Cy-BOwTUAHeyGa-Ke7iIbHVcOPKBdJ1nsMehQdHC7hcLXGbSeFridogmOI8WjGb2A9NKMmTAUihdfK02PL2nswn0EeE9gGwstAHsbEW3oGMhcPuCJtrcCRvtpc36GaWA/s400/IMAG0088-1.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBOFEk9Uew75bGq859WdKI0Go1jvYfHSxCY6XyW09FyI4UAEZ2CSeC9q6C0mdulBANeviKTximH5aZvPKQref95O8INL5UgOusU8R9MPlbb_aFRzUzRhPCNLjg7r1wQuV4ywd7w/s1600/IMAG0087-1.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5599938100776039042" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 332px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBOFEk9Uew75bGq859WdKI0Go1jvYfHSxCY6XyW09FyI4UAEZ2CSeC9q6C0mdulBANeviKTximH5aZvPKQref95O8INL5UgOusU8R9MPlbb_aFRzUzRhPCNLjg7r1wQuV4ywd7w/s400/IMAG0087-1.jpg" border="0" /></a>What's funny is that, as you can see from the pictures, I was least concerned with keeping my whoody-whaty covered, and more worried about keeping my stomach and boobs concealed. Or at least trying to stand in the most flattering way possible.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRlETAxhI0h624eTZ6ndGV5JxKPt_0KKh5lMtECO4tgho9yJY-sL-xaFVdGHoQEpkzPWVlOxJfaG_LPrR2oNLt-wBCchW6eIGSLddYQeMSE2ZQtoTW1Wg_t8Pvt4NmaBMgOgxl3w/s1600/IMAG0086-1.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5599938097391063826" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 368px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRlETAxhI0h624eTZ6ndGV5JxKPt_0KKh5lMtECO4tgho9yJY-sL-xaFVdGHoQEpkzPWVlOxJfaG_LPrR2oNLt-wBCchW6eIGSLddYQeMSE2ZQtoTW1Wg_t8Pvt4NmaBMgOgxl3w/s400/IMAG0086-1.jpg" border="0" /></a>I finally gave up trying to cover myself and accepted the fact that it was impossible to have any shred of dignity whilst being spray tanned by someone who's already seen your everything.<br /><br />She was <em>so </em>nice about the whole thing, and kept friendly conversation going. I was finally starting to relax a little, when she told me to do a lunge. And this, my friends, is what I did:<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhiVUPjnNvNZNnIQy1yy55geEV-EzJ5HKVJdzVO-8kKUutEU_IGhNcve7kNHDEIPzXVDrYBm4Lf80wd3XQpaKpJpGldHOFySF5YbFuScJKA2TmS9GcvCSGOYwC8PDVfheRiDKZGuA/s1600/IMAG0083-1-1.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5599938092656448418" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 308px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhiVUPjnNvNZNnIQy1yy55geEV-EzJ5HKVJdzVO-8kKUutEU_IGhNcve7kNHDEIPzXVDrYBm4Lf80wd3XQpaKpJpGldHOFySF5YbFuScJKA2TmS9GcvCSGOYwC8PDVfheRiDKZGuA/s400/IMAG0083-1-1.jpg" border="0" /></a> Not a lunge. She politely showed me how to do a lunge, and I said to her, "Look at me! Are you really surprised that I don't know the difference between a lunge and a squat?" Apparently what I was doing wasn't really a squat, either. I don't know what I was doing, besides making a complete and total ass of myself. <br /><p></p>But a tan ass, nontheless.<br /><br /><br /><p><strong><strong>**UPDATE</strong>**</strong> For those of you who haven't gotten your fill of Bone Junior TMI, you can find my original post about waxing <a href="http://www.sarahisdabomb.com/2008/02/although-i-was-able-to-sleep-with-you.html"target="_blank">here</a> . And for those of you who can't get enough Bone Junior TMI, the original illustrations are up for auction.Bone Juniorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00495320516172216699noreply@blogger.com8